Emp,
Thanks for sharing with us your results, even though you are not pleased with them. I honestly don't think your results are that bad. They are not miracle results but I think you look better now than you did before the surgeries. I do appreciate the difference between seeing pictures of results and living personally with the results, and that still shots do not give the entire story. But I agree with hairthere that the picture with your hair parted to the side looks pretty good. I'm sure you know that styling is an important factor with making the best out of HT hair. The toppik'ed pics are pretty good as well. The combed forward and parted look aren't so great.
As for your crown expansion claim, how are you sure that you just didn't lose more hair in the area?
I have seen a couple of patients of Dr. Wong on the forums who's results didn't pan out so well. I wouldn't put you in that category. But again, I am seeing pictures of your hair and you are living with your hair.
What is your next step? I wouldn't completely rule out strip again. Maybe a couple smaller ones of about 1,000 grafts are in order, perhaps?
Again, sorry you are not happy Emp but I think your hair is looking better than you think. I hope for nothing but the best for you.