your hair looks great, i wouldnt do anything, try styling your hair different, longer in the front may help, are you on meds, as far as those guys busting your chops, i know guys like that and if it wasnt ur hair they will pick on something else, they are igornant, dont even bother worring about what they say.did you ask ur dr what his thoughts are about lowering ur hairline, good luck in ur quest for more hair, your hair looks great , you came a long way from where you started.