Good post corv. And I totally agree with you Cant decide about how people notice things that are important to them - or in other words things that they are insecure about. I am definitely guilty of rating other guys NW levels and estimating how many grafts they would need!
An extension of your post corv would be for those patients who have an idealized picture of what they want to be and won't do anything socially until that is accomplished. For instance, someone who just had a surgery and is waiting for that perfect result before they ask a girl out. What if, what if they never get that result? Then they are basically putting themselves off the market because of an idea they have of what they should be. I'm sure this could happen professionally as well.