BOY!! Do I strongly disagree with this!!
Perhaps women don't respect you, because you don't respect yourself.
Alot of women (if not most) WILL find you attractive (even with some level of hairloss)
Beauty has ALOT to do with your own self perception.(I HAD to realise this also.)
You think women find you unattractive, because you perceive yourself as being unattractive.
You have to develop your life (A SOCIAL STANDING aka a profession like a physician, lawyer, etc., along side a sense of humour and INDEPENDENCE:not being "clingy" to her; she must be subtly aware, that you can live without her) and a woman's sense of attraction to you will develop.
Beware all of this is a two sided coin.
It is incumbent on you to appreciate a woman's full beauty also, and not just focus on your perception of her deficiency.