Yes, English is my first language, I'm from London, England and there is a difference between being critical and being honest. The two threads which I know you are undoubtedly referring to are this and the eugenix one where I commented on the donor. Both ops on that thread shared my view, and as a result of my honesty, another two people having the same donor problems with eugenix felt comfortable to come forward and also share their worries, something if I were not honest they may have not done and hence be able to help placate their worries and give them advice.