This is a very interesting discussion, Robert! I often look at pictures of transplant patients and wonder if they look any better, even with a great transplant. I met with a surgeon recently regarding a jaw implant and after our conversation I was not convinced I was going to end up look any more attractive. I always think of Elton John. It appears Elton has had a jaw implant at some point however I could not classify him as a handsome man. Surgery may not be the final solution and placing enormous hopes in it can leave one feeling angry with the world if those around you are no more accepting of you after. I guess we all hope that some little thing (like a transplant or some facial reconstruction) will make us the next Cary Grant. Good hair or high cheekbones or strong jaw line does not necessarily make you handsome. A lot more goes into the magic of being beautiful. It must be very disconcerting for a young man to participate in these discussion groups and find that there are men in their 30's and beyond still very tortured by physical appearances.