Personally, I'm glad I had surgery, and I know a number of people on this forum are extremely happy they went through with it. I don't know much about your situation, but make sure you do NOT go through with it unless you are 100% certain. You really don't want to go into it 50/50...that's my honest opinion. Talk to some reputable docs, get consults, talk to satisfied and dissatisfied patients....do your homework, and then make a decision when you know for sure what you want to do. I suppose saying 100% isn't quite fair, but make sure that you are at least 90%, with only 10% being the fear of the unknown of this being your first surgery. That's my advice. Feel free to poke around my pictures site underneath my name on the left hand side. I've had two surgeries.
Bill