You are playing the "blame the victim" game. I find it hard to believe that from your world view, bald guys have absolutely no disadvantage in securing dates and wives. No bald guys I know , nor do I, have a confidence problem - I don't know how you can say that when you don't even know me. While you are at it why not blame it on me not taking showers or brushing my teeth hahahaha!
That is why I guessed it and not assumed it. Since you are on this site about hair loss and calling it being a victim, I just would guess it affects you in some way. On a different note, brushing your teeth and taking showers would help!