I like this doctor's honesty, lasering the grafts in the recipient to smooth them down so they dont stand out when you shave sounds like a good option, about electrolysis permanent removal I would be cautious of scaring and would consult a lot of electrologists with experience on transplanted hair removal. Well about shaving every day, you would have to do that anyway if you were bald and wanted to maintain the bald look, also its like 5 minutes, you can do this either before you sleep or right after you wake up. Also even if the scars appear after 1 day i doubt they would be that noticeable