thanks for your personal experience...you are pretty spot on with my thinking. if i want to keep my hair short then fue is the only way to go. problem is like you said...the recipient area where fue is transplanted wont look the same as my native hair as spacing and density is different. it may actually look worse. anything over a #1/#2 cut, i can see definate thinning in the mid vertex and scalp area. thus the reason i shave it close.
the issue with going strip is obviously the scar. if i dont like the results and wanted to go short again, i couldnt. i wish a technique were available that leaves zero scars thus i could go back to shaving close if i didnt like the results. like you said over 1000 fue the scarring will look noticeable in the donor area. i have a feeling that if i went with strip and had even 3000 grafts done, i wouldnt like the result and be stuck!!