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SecretlyThinning

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Basic Information

  • Gender
    Male
  • Country
    United States
  • State
    NY

Hair Loss Overview

  • Describe Your Hair Loss Pattern
    Receding Hairline (Genetic Baldness)
    Thinning or Bald Spot in the Crown/Vertex
  • How long have you been losing your hair?
    In the last 5 years
  • What Best Describes Your Goals?
    Maintain and Regrow Hair
    Considering Surgical Hair Restoration
    Considering Non-Surgical Treatments

Hair Loss Treatments

  • Have you ever had a hair transplant?
    No
  • Current Non-Surgical Treatment Regime
    Propecia (Finasteride)
    Dermmatch
    Toppik

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  1. Not common. The majority of those who develop gynecomastia as a result of taking Finasteride are taking 5 mg, which is a much higher dose than the 1 mg Propecia dose. In a four-year controlled study of over 3,000 men on a 5 mg dose, less than 1% reported breast enlargement (0.5%, as opposed to the Placebo group at 0.1%) in the first year. Usually this side effect exhibits itself in the first 2-6 months, though, and once you stop taking it, the effect reverses, i.e. the man boobs disappear. If you think you're developing gynecomastia, though, you should see your doctor to confirm this. Breast tissue is different than fatty tissue, and sometimes it's just fat, which would not be a result of taking Finasteride/Propecia/Proscar. Look up the studies on drugs.com for data tables, their explanations, etc.
  2. Scalp micro-pigmentation can actually render EXCELLENT results, and if you're going to wear hair anyway, it'll just create a shadow--that is, the appearance of more follicles. If you go to someone who specializes in it, you have to realize that this cosmetic tattoo (it is a tattoo after all) is very different than the tattoo you get at your regular tattoo parlor. The pigements are different, too. Regular tattoos "smear," but cosmetic tattoos -- micropigmentation of the scalp, eyebrows, eyeliner, lip liner, etc., etc., etc. -- will fade long before that. They only last a few years before they're virtually undetectable. In other words, you'll be back to get it redone, but they won't smear, smudge, or turn blue if you're going to someone who specializes in the art of micropigmentation and using very specific tools and pigments. Honestly, I'm considering having it done on my scar (had a HT three weeks ago) when all is said and done. I'm in no rush, but if/when I decide to cut my hair short (and once I've confirmed I won't require another procedure...at least for a while), I'd definitely consider it. That said, yes...get back on the propecia/proscar! And Dr. Wong should definitely be commended for giving you the honest truth about your situation.
  3. I would use dermmatch first and shadow your hairline forward slightly (especially if there's existing hair there). Then, I'd put the toppik, nanogen, or caboki (my new favorite) on. You can use a spray applicator, guard with your finger, or this little tool they have called the "hairline optimizer" (a jagged guard). The notch in the middle looks like an easier fix than the temporal recession, but I think you can bring that forward considerably with styling and concealers. Do you ever wear your hair forward a bit? Use a paste or a pomade to mess it up a bit and bring it forward -- a destructured look. You don't want the hair all going uniformly in the same direction for this kind of look. You have great texture, and you're young enough to pull this off well -- even at a wedding. For the dermmatch and Toppik (or other concealer), I'd go with a light brown. You look heavily lit in these photos, so if that's altering the color, that could be an issue. HOWEVER, if photos will be taken outdoors, you may want to go lighter anyway, since too dark of a concealer would look horrible in natural lighting, whereas slightly lighter would actually look pretty good (providing just a bit of shadow to your scalp and in between natural hair). If you're not sure, get two colors and mix them. I mix the blonde and light brown Dermmatch as well as the blonde and light brown Caboki (and did the same with Toppik). Get it all now and start playing with it. You appear to have great texture, so you'll no doubt have excellent results from a transplant surgery should you decide to go that route. If you're a 3V, it's great that you're going ahead and using the Propecia (if your profile is accurate). A HT doctor will likely NOT touch your crown -- especially at your age. (I know because I started Propecia to stop my own receding/thinning and only had miniaturization in my crown, but Dr. Dorin said he wouldn't address my crown at my age. Others concurred.) That said, hair fibers will really thicken up the crown nicely. I can easily go without it in the crown with no issue, but sometimes I apply it there just to affect a denser look (for my own self-satisfaction).
  4. YES! And you can get inexpensive sulfate-free shampoos at your local drug store. Some studies suggest they're carcinogenic. However, even if you chalk that up to hype, they do strip your hair (excessively so) of natural oils -- much more than is necessary for cleaning. Furthermore, daily shampooing with such a shampoo will irritate your scalp (whether you can see it immediately or not). For healthy hair AND a healthy scalp, use a sulfate-free shampoo. Actually, unless your hair is naturally oily, you don't want to shampoo more than every other day or so anyway.
  5. Homophobia and transphobia are not one in the same, but their roots are the same -- roots of ignorance. And, while we're at it, transgender and gay are not the same, and being transgender doesn't make you gay. (We could go on: transgendered individuals are not necessarily transsexuals...) Calling the procedures creepy (particularly without qualifying that word choice) may seem clever at first -- after all, we're all dudes here, right? -- but it's not really. I'm not saying Dr. Epstein is a great doctor, but the procedures aren't that far-fetched, and I think you'd be shocked to know that some surgeons whose work you do admire actually perform such procedures. They simply choose not to showcase that work for various reasons. Finally, we're all on an online forum, aren't we? If we're confused about something, we can just open another tab in our explorer and do a quick google search to educate ourselves. That's the beauty of the internet; you don't have to take a Gender & Sexuality course at Sarah Lawrence to be informed and speak thoughtfully about such matters. ;-) Back to the issue at hand, though, you should feel comfortable wherever you decide to get your procedure done, and if the hard sell bothers you and the general atmosphere bothers you...go elsewhere.
  6. Bonkerstonker, yes, yes, you ARE 'being' (not 'been') thick. And, the way you decided to phrase that question only emphasizes that. To answer your question, gender reassignment surgery may prevent future hair loss, but it won't reverse hair loss. Hormone replacement therapy can aid in preventing future hair loss, but likewise, it won't be effective for reversing hair loss. A hair transplant is the only way for her to go. Furthermore, gender reassignment surgery and hormone replacement therapy aren't as effective later in life as they are when you aren't as far removed from puberty. Lastly, gender reassignment surgery is not an easy surgery, and it's VERY expensive. Also, she has to be on hormone replacement therapy and receiving psychological treatment for a period of years before any reputable doctor would perform such a surgery. A hair transplant is a walk in the park (perhaps even a lounge on a blanket in a park) in comparison. On the agenda of things a transgendered (or pre-op transsexual) individual would be considering, a hair transplant is something she can more quickly check off the list.
  7. Propecia's half-life is actually longer than some other medications, and it takes longer to metabolize than many, too. As such, you can go longer between doses if it's already in your system. However, if you stop altogether due to side effects, it'll take a while to over them. On the other hand, side effects happen gradually, so if you noticed something very real and very immediate, it could (for argument's sake) be psychosomatic.
  8. I think the best thing you can do is change your diet. Yes, you can completely change your blood pressure and cholesterol with diet alone. Then, you won't have to worry about it interfering with the Propecia. You're far too young to be on blood pressure medication. Change your diet, stay on the Propecia. Keep your arteries and heart healthy...and keep your hair! That may not be what you want to hear, but having worked with a cardiologist in the past and having seen real case studies, I can assure you that it's the absolute, 100% truth.
  9. Take the finasteride (Propecia/Procar). I've been taking it since I was 24, when I finally admitted to myself that my hairline was receding. Given the fact that there are a variety of balding patterns in my family, I decided not to wait and see if I lost it from my crown, too. I'm sure there's some miniaturization in my crown, but it's something only I notice because my hair is finer than it was when I was 17, 18, and 19 years old. After taking Propecia for a year, Dr. Dorin could see that not only had my hairloss NOT progressed, but the texture of the hair in my crown AS WELL AS in my hairline (where it was receding, it was getting fine and fuzzy first) had completely changed. The hair cuticle was both smoother and stronger. Seriously, get on it. The sexual side effects may be real for some people, but for some who think they're experiencing them, they may also be imagined. Less of a desire and inability to achieve an erection can totally be in your head. I'm gay (obviously), and half the gay men my age and older that I know take Propecia--many of them out of sheer FEAR of losing their hair, even though there's no evidence to suggest they actually are. None of us are suffering sexual side effects. Ha! I doubt it's a sexual orientation thing, either. A dude is a dude is a dude, and you will most likely NOT experience sexual side effects. I understand about the relaxing, too. I have very coarse, curly hair and have done the same. (I actually had a nice "chemical haircut" about 10 years ago from a relaxer that was left on too long.) If you do grow your hair back out, I find keratin treatments to be great for smoothing out the hair and giving it a nice texture...and it won't f*ck with your scalp! (I use Coppola Keratin Complex, which is formaldehyde-free.) For the crown, I'd also suggest using Toppik, xFusion fibers, or Caboki fibers. Seriously. I've used these fibers on me AND others. A transplant surgeon would likely be reticent to work on your crown just yet. They'll probably address your hairline first. Hair building fibers on your crown in the meantime will give you a great result -- especially if you want to book a modeling job or even just take new pics for your portfolio. In the meantime, I'd suggest you take Propecia...especially since you're thinning so much in the crown. I just had my first HT with Dr. True and Dr. Dorin, and like corvettester, I can attest to their work. If nothing else, schedule a consultation.
  10. Great results! I just looked through all of your albums, and you're definitely fortunate. This procedure brought your hairline down considerably lower than the last, and the last one brought your hairline considerably forward from your starting point. I definitely can't see you bringing the hairline down anymore since it appears--especially in profile--that your hairline now reaches your frontalis muscles. The forehead angle appears more flat now, which gives you a more youthful AND masculine appearance, particularly with the stronger temporal points. As conservative in graft numbers as these procedures were, the results are dramatic. You appear to have gone from prematurely approaching a NWIV to being able to expect a very youthful NWI when it's all said and done...and you have plenty left in your donor area! Congrats! I, too, had the fortune of seeing both Dr. True and Dr. Dorin, and I can attest that they're the real deal and at the very top of their game. You'd be hard-pressed to find anyone else in the field with their level of expertise and their sheer artistry!
  11. No, you shave NOTHING. I repeat...NOTHING for a lace wig. N-O-T-H-I-N-G. No shaving. NO SHAVING. The lace is glued or taped down at the hairline. THAT'S ALL. That holds it in place. They can be glued/taped down around the entire perimenter, but you DO NOT SHAVE. I'm talking about wigs like you see in film/television. Trust me, these stars are NOT SHAVING their heads. Some don't even glue/tape the hairline down. They just use pins. (This, of course, requires that you have hair at your hairline. Otherwise, you have to tape or glue.) Look at (Link removed by moderator). However, as i said before, a lot of African American salons make the same quality wigs for much, much cheaper.
  12. brw989, I just posted pics in my profile album showing the results I get from combining Dermmatch and Toppik. I think the results are pretty undetectable. (Please excuse my poor photography skills. I used my phone.)
  13. I just posted pics in my album so that you can see the results I get from combining Dermmatch and Toppik.
  14. I'm not talking necessarily about a full on "hair system" like you'd get from Hair Club for Men or something. I'm talking about lace front (and full lace) wigs that celebrities wear and that are used in film and theater. You don't have to shave your head for those. Thin Skin is another option. You do glue or tape down the hairline, but because it's only the hairline, you don't have to shave your head and bond it to your scalp. Like I said, if you're not ready to shave, just get a custom, lace front or full lace wig. You glue or tape down at the hairline, and if you're worried about extra security, they often come with clips that will clip into your existing hair (or you can have them sewn in) at undetectable areas NOT at the hairline. Steps 2 - 6 can be used as advice for hair systems as well, though.
  15. jessie1, I'd think you could have accomplished more with 1,000 grafts as well. Given the length of your hair, I guess you're within reason to have expected to have seen greater change by now. Keep us posted, though!
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