"The thing is, once married--if it ever happens--I'm NOT going to be thinking, "OK. GREAT! Now I can let the ol' bod go to POT" and gain 40 pounds, a huge beergut, gigantic ass, flabby arms, pudgy face, rotting teeth, stinkbreath, bed farts and BALDO."
Instead of beating around the bush- Why don't you just say who you are referring to? FUTzy-Before! lol...
I agree with what you are saying- You know- I did "go to pot" in a way. I was a bit depressed about my hair, so I ate- Then I was depressed about my weight- So I ate more. Then, I would be depressed- So I drank. Then ate- drank...(not saying alcoholic drinking, but enough to be "not healthy") Now- I look the best (not saying much, I know) that I have since before I met my wife. I think it was just a phase, but deep inside I want to have a nice appearance for myself (1st) and my wife (2nd). I now have more hair than I did when we met, and weigh less than I did when we met. (180 rather than 227) I'm all over it, baby- Life and pride in your appearance doesn't end with marriage-