I am a in need of advice because I currently have no idea what to do.
I am 29 years old and have noticed hairloss for about two years now.
Current situation:
Receding hairline, started at 27
Scalp thinned out overall
possibly even less hair on vertex
Family history:
Mother's side:
Grandpa: always had a flawless very low hairline and I think he had less hair in the crown but not much less than I do now I think. Especially when he was 65 he definitely still had a very full head of hair.
Uncle 1: went completely bald at 20
Uncle 2: same perfect hair as his dad except he has a big bald patch in the crown at now 60.
Father's side:
Father: receding hairline like me but an inch higher up at 64. I will surely get there too. Thinner on top in general like me. Otherwise full head of hair. I feel like my vortex is worse than his.
Uncle: almost bald at 70, already severely balding at 50.
Grandpa: same hair as my father but less than my dad at the crown I think
I currently can still clearly see small hairs in my receding hairline which range from 1cm to 1mm in length.
They are clearly falling out, I see them everywhere.
I had two consultations so far.
Belgravia Hair Clinic:
At Belgravia they honestly didn't seem to care much and immediately wanted to put me on Finasteride and Minoxidil. I didn't feel comfortable there, it felt like they just give everyone the same short talk and same prescription and that's it.
I am very scared of Finasteride so I don't want to take that.
Harley Street Hair clinic:
There the Dermatologist (the person I spoke with at Belgravia wasn't a Doctor, this guy was) was surprised when I asked about Finasteride and said if he prescribed that he would lose his license and said if he had to give advice to his brother, family etc he would never prescribe it and said it's way too dangerous.
The doctor then prescribed me Minoxidil/Regaine/Rogaine.
What now?
Now I'm sitting here having purchased Regaine three days ago and I don't know what to do.
My dilemma is that I am scared of starting Regaine/Rogaine, because I'm worried about what happens if I stop.
For whatever reason. Say I need to have some unrelated surgery and need to stop taking any medication or what have you.
My concern is that I don't know if the Minoxidil also affects hair that might only have fallen out at say 60.
So if I started to take it now and stopped at 40, I understand I would shed all the hair that had improved before because of Minoxidil. But what I wonder is, will it also shed hair that would have otherwise been healthy until 60? Which hair does it shed? All the hair that is "touched" by the foam when applying it? Or all the hair that receives a boost from it even if it's just a very small boost because it's quite healthy anyway and not meant to fall out yet?
I hope this isn't too confusing.
I'm worried about unnecessarily going down a rabbit hole now by starting Minoxidil when maybe it would be better to just get a HT and not have to worry about what the Minoxidil will do?