I don't think anyone would ever argue that a guy looks better without hair, as someone has said you rarely see bald male models in magazines. However when you meet a women she is presented with a whole range of qualities to assess, one of which is physical appearance, but what about wealth, personality, confidence, ambition, height, weight, voice quality, notoriety etc.
The problem with some guys is that they only look at women from a physical point of view (which is so one-dimensional) and hence they often attract women who do the same - that is a recipe for disaster. Which is what we see in these pages.
If men look at women, the way they want the women to see them, then you have a much better chance of meeting a soulmate who really likes you.
On a different level, how many guys think they would have trouble meeting a girl if they drove a Ferrari or won the State Lottery. Somehow hair loss wouldn't be a major consideration in the eyes of most women (who have a very strong nestbuilding instinct).
What I am saying is if you see all of the qualities in the woman and not just be attractive to a woman purely on looks, then you are more likely to meet someone who doesn't judge you on looks alone.