hello everyone, well, i started my struggle with hairloss when i was in my early 20s which is quite a long time ago now
in the early years, i used minoxidil and also some herbal tablets (can't remember what they were now) but i didn't continue trying. i thought that as time went on, i'd get used to things and just accept things but i haven't, and this is 15+ years later.
after seeing certain celebrities on tv i started to think that a ht would be something to investigate, and i thought why not 'fix' this problem rather than always hiding away from it (i know it's not straightforward).
so i have investigated and think i want to go ahead with it. am using regaine and nizoral. but... i can't face the idea of propecia, the side effects are really terrifying for me because of family illnesses and also the sexual side effects.
i had an argument with a woman that pushed past me on a staircase once, and from above, she turned round and shouted baldie, and this is one of the moments that has stuck with me. also a drunk guy at a party once said, the hair on the top of my head was like a little bit of fuzz (i'd cut it very short) as that seemed to be the advice at the time - 'if there are issues with thinness, always go short' - lol! and someone pulled at it, and i left feeling freaked out. i relate to all the comments about wearing hats, and avoiding rain, not standing under bright light etc.
anyway, what i'm seriously wondering is if i can go ahead with the ht, use regaine and nizoral, and make the best of things?
i feel that my hair loss was greatest in my early 20s and that it's slowed down or perhaps the loss was more noticeable back then because i had much more hair...
i feel it's either ht - or - nothing and try to accept what is.
thanks very much to spex for all the advice. this forum is great, i am shocked at the number of surgeons in the uk who are doing hts that maybe shouldn't be but impressed with the work done by surgeons recommended by this site.
anyway, i just wanted to get all this out there. i've talked to a couple of people closest to me about this, a bit like a coming out, but not had much support or feedback. i've got a possible consultation in two - three weeks so any helpful comments or feedback from you would be welcome and appreciated