Chap, I really feel for you.
We obviously can't see your pre-op photos, but for 5k grafts you'd really expect a much better result.
If it was me, I'd now be doing research to look for a good doc who could do repair work. This forum is a good place to start that search. I'd then get a few consultations with a few shortlisted docs and see what they say can be done. It really depends on how many grafts you've got left, what coverage you can expect, how much you can/want to pay, and how much further time/trauma you feel you can give to get a result - maybe it's just worth shaving down.