Hi Fuzzy,
The 4 to 8 week period is the worst. After about 3 months you'll start to see things grow.
Not putting a large number of grafts in an area where you have existing hair is a legitimate strategy. It can and does lessen shock loss.
As you can see, there are some varying opinions on this board, but that's what makes it interesting. I hope you did get many 3 and 4 hair grafts like I did in my last procedure. They will give you better coverage when they grow out. They do require slightly larger incisions, which might be what Aquarius is seeing.
Naturally occurring Follicular Units (FU's) typically have from 1 to 4 hairs and should be implanted intact. So hopefully you had some 4 hair grafts. Being female, I'm not sure if the Follicular Units tend to be different than those of males. Sometimes doctors will combine FU's to achieve better density. For example, they can combine two 2 hair FU's to form a 4 hair FU.
I think as your hair starts to grow out in a couple of months, you'll feel much better.
Bill, please don't categorize a 4 hair FU as a mini-graft.
Gorp