man, reading this truely hurts my soul. you seem like a goodkid you cant be goin through life man so sad about this. its your 21st birthday dude, go get drunk at the bar you wanna get drunk at man.. don't let your hairloss bog you down to the point you can't celebrate the day of your birth. your parents had you for many more reasons than to see flowing hair. for real man im not gona tell you to get help, but shit ill talk to ufor awhile dude, there is no reason to get this sad man, GO GET DRUNK. get so drunk you bick ur hair off and then laugh about it in the morning. YOUR 21!!!!!! who gives a shit if someone says you look 30? tell them how fat there asses are? anyway dude, goodluck coming from a 19year old who could very well be your friend.