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Dangrowthfactor

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  1. 2 Month Photo Update!

    Two months have finally passed since having my 1400 unit FUE to restore my hairline. 
     

    It is really tough the first two months mindset wise. Let me know what you guys think, definitely in an “ugly duckling phase” and hope it ends soon! I haven’t had a haircut for over 2 months lol whenever things open back up I’ll jump on that. 
     

    these photos were taken as soon as I woke up today, no Shower 💩 I’ll see if there is a difference. I plan on doing side by sides and posting them later to get better perspective. 
     

    hope everyone is staying strong and

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  2. Another thing I have been focused on during recovery

     

    -keeping the scalp clean.

    -Keep clean pillow cases

    -I wash my hats twice a week.

    -I don’t touch my hair unless applying minoxidil, make sure hands are clean washed too

    -obviously shower and wash hair 

    -limit amount of times wear a hat 🧢 

     

    One good thing about this global pandemic quarentine - if you had a HT surgery- you got some help during recovery being forced to stay in lol the cranial chia pet might be 50% in by the time this thing lifts 😂 

     

  3. Thank you LonleyGraft for your comment. I am trying to stay aware of my mindset. 

    That must have been a tough experience, I can relate as I noticed I was becoming a little to hyper vigilant. 

    I will check for @Melvin-Moderator post, it sounds great. 

    They say expectations are the first step towards disappointment.  Your right HT are not perfect-from the onset I have been aware that it will never achieve perfect look.  Having faith for a best outcome is great- after the surgery-that rests in the behaviors/action you CAN control. Taking an inventory of what you CAN control is a good step I have taken to allow myself to not worry as much. 

    Finding a balance takes effort to be mindful. 

    Thanks for your input! 

     

     

     

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  4. Actually making a retraction of shock-loss statement. What happens when you go through this procedure is natural and probably happens to many. Mindset is important to address- apart from the pics, growth, progress. Here’s what I’m doing for my head.
    Here are some things I noticed in myself: 

    1. you see things you didn’t notice before. Because A. You become hyper focused on your hair ( growth, sensation ect. And rightfully so, for many reasons) 

    2. you might have some denial about what you see. My hairloss at crown must have been worse than I perceived even though improved with finasteride/ minoxidil 1,2 punch. I never had my hair shaved/ buzzed to see. 
     

    I am excited to see change coming, I’m also going to work on my mindset: 

    1. will try to look in mirror less to check hair

    2. Will set my focus to what’s happening internally, less focus on hair and external.  I believe appearance is important- not saying go around disheveled 😂 I believe taking care of your appearance shows some good values, self care, self love/respect. I mean apart from that preparedness, or ritual Actions  to maintain/ improve- it’s okay to stop there- focus on feeling good about yourself, accepting myself, building confidence in other ways. These parts need to grow together. I don’t want to feel insecure until my hairlines restored. I want to remind myself to feel good and know that it will be better and the sexy level will be turned up 😂 
    3. Practice awareness of when I might start obsessing over the hair. Stop myself, meditate, and move forward to something else. 

    I’m curious as to how others experience greater self awareness as a result of focusing so much. Almost self isolating at the initial phase of the surgery. What goes through other guys minds ? Where is the mindset ? 
     

    Taking the time to build awareness of your mental patterns- should be mentioned as an important part of post surgery recovery. I think this procedure can be a stepping stone to some awesome personal development. 
     

    Thoughts?
     

     

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  5. Thanks John! I’m hoping all is going well. I need a haircut haven’t had one. 
     

    Haircut will make a huge difference for the look. May have some shock loss in crown. I believe the phase I’m in now is what they call the “ugly duckling phase” ? 
     

    Fingers crossed appreciate the feedback guys 💪🏻

  6. Thanks! Yes, the redness is slowly going away.Fingers crossed 🤞🏻 for great growth in the next 3-4 months.

    It’s strange I can feel the hairline. Like, it feels as though I have hair at the new hairline and temples- the sensation of hair is very cool - been over a decade since been that low. 

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