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Sam23

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  1. Yes i know, it is simple, i do not like it, it is not the way i want, it is does not look good for me and i cannot accept it and i cannot do something about it and i feel i will spend my whole life with it Everyone tell me to wait, so i m waiting but i making it difficult to myself and try to prepare myself what i should do after 6 months Maybe my issue it is only the hairline if i fix it i will be ok Now when i m talk to the people, i start starring to their head to see if someone have defects like mine or to understand how the hairline should look I magnify things in mind, cuz i know it is transplant, if i forget it is transplant i will never say anything LOL, really i became crazy man Maybe it all happen becuase i can still see my top of head and systematic hairline grow in ugly way Sorry i m writeing a lot here, better to wait and see
  2. Yes i know, it is simple, i do not like it, it is not the way i want, it is does not look good for me and i cannot accept it and i cannot do something about it and i feel i will spend my whole life with it Everyone tell me to wait, so i m waiting but i making it difficult to myself and try to prepare myself what i should do after 6 months Maybe my issue it is only the hairline if i fix it i will be ok Now when i m talk to the people, i start starring to their head to see if someone have defects like mine or to understand how the hairline should look I put a pic how i think my hairline should like, not a giant wide circle, I magnify things in mind, cuz i lnow it is transplant, if i forget it is transplant i will never say anything Hhhhhh, really i became crazy man
  3. They should mention that before doing HT, it is a one way ticket whether you like it or not it is one way ticket I should think about it in this way before, not just have hair, I wish when i did it i will look like the old me with same hair, but it seems it was something totally different Now it is like you wearing an ugly wig but you cannot take it off, i hope if i used wig at least i can take it off
  4. it seems i have a panic attack Cuz i know i m stuck whether i like it or not, i m stuck, it is a one way ticket, and everything is out of my control
  5. U know, i want to remove it, i m tired from all of this, i cannot recognize myself anymore, i want to come back how i was look, and see my old me When i see my old pics before transplant 6 months ago, i almost cry, what i did to my self, how i can fix this now, it is like cheating myself and cheating everyone, this is not me The problem is in the frame, they framed my face i do not like that, my face was never framed in whole mylife, i hate the hair textures That is why i ased to implant in the middle and not create something new, they conveinced it will look ugly, i should listen to my inner sound, it was right from beginning, I went to dermatologist yesterday and told me your scalp is ok there are no scars but there is redness, however, maybe there are internal scars that need to be checked She does not recommend me to use laser, and say that laser is hair reduction and not laser removal, and The only way to go is electrolysis but it usually used for small area, and outdated tool she told me that the skin will not back like before no matter what you do, but it can look normal but not super clean scalp But really i do not care anymore, i want to restore my life and end this chapter
  6. Thanks guys for support, really you help me a lot I spent hours starring and try to find out what will relieve me and make me feel ok I can describ it exactly like , i see my face as 2d object not 3d because the temple recession and center is connected in one line like smilly face So i feel the hairline should be narrower it so wide, espically abve the eyebrow it should be like bell shape it makes my forehead streatching, i cannot feel i have sides now only face, when i see myself from distance believe me i see a 2d object, so i avoid see myself in mirror now Restoring the temple, it will not help it will make my forehead smalller, with nw6 pattern it will create more problem for me I did not have temple before balding, so i did not have this problem Now i feel i want to remove the hairline and keep the forelock How i can do it, laser, electrosys, fue punch out, The hairline is framing the face, and really this is not suit me at all, i want to remove fhis frame I feel i m fake, really it is nighmare, i will loss my job if i continue like this Can i start now after 6 months ?
  7. HT is not for me at all, i did not accept this change and i feel it is fake, i feel i m cheating myself specially with this artifically hairline, and i doubt my feeling will change at the end, but i will try to be patient and wait I m used to wide forehead so wide, regardless if it suit me or not but i had peace with myself before, now my life become nightmare just focusing on hair and cannot do anything in mylife only hair, now there is huge contrast betweeb the skin and hair, this type of hair does not suit hairline at all If there is a solution to remove it all and get back to how i look and end this chapter of my life, i will pay anything and do it I think after 6 months you will find me here asking about a way to remove it, unless there is a dramatically change happen And the problem i had 3650 grafts and i know this almost impossible to remove it, except if laser work for me and my skin was normal without scars
  8. Ok if i restore the temple the recession will vanished, i need a receded hairline to look normal in the future Maybe only temple point Really it is confuse me, How i can solve this ? See the pic that i put, those are the pattern of hairline recessions They used the class AA while they should use class B Now i want to restore the temple but also i want to move to class B how that can e possible ? Anyway as u i overanalyzed everything now, i will wait 7 months then re assess
  9. If i remove those grafts like in the pic to give a space above temple point Do you think it will look ok ? And more natural than restoring the temple, nobody will doubt i had HT cause there is no perfection here, and it is like a loss stage Even by laser it will make the hair above the temple lighter so there will be no contrast and it will look mini hair Restoring the temple is more risky i think
  10. But think about it in reverse why you do not remove the hair above the temple, it might work also, That what i m thinking about, go natural and not perfection, just mimc some loss stage
  11. Here what i mean See it is too straight from front not raised, it should be more higher above the eyebrow give the forelock shape So what i see, some hair should be unpluged above the eyebrow and at temple, that means The side od hairline should be narrowed from and receded, it would be better and more balanced
  12. Thanksfo pic, you are right and i know that the temple is missing and maybe this is the reason that gives me unbalanced feeling but, i think all of this years i lost it and did not have problem cause it was gone with part of hairline above, so it was not odd to me, That is why i asked for more receded hairline to not resotre the temple, but now with this hairline i will not feel it is ok without the temple, and i m afraid down the road if i receded more or with age, it will look so ugly, therefore, i m thinking to unplug some hair above the temple to give some space and more natural feeliing If i checked my old pics, they restored almost my 20 hairline, but i feel the new one is different it is more straight and wider, or it is my illusion cause there is no temple point The new is more wider above the eyebrow it should be higher Check this
  13. I Think if i fill the temple it will not look natural, but on the sametime this hairline requires temple point, If it was more recede maybe it will be better without temple point that how i think about it
  14. You right, My doctor said i have wide head and this is my original hairline and receded a little bit, he refused to talk about any another surgery before 1 year and said this is unethical, and he said you cannot measure the donor area also before 8 months or 1 year The position of the hairline is 90% right when i checked using moles but some hairs in front does not give receding look or it is too straight without temple points Anyway there is nothing i can do now just wandering Thanks mate
  15. Agree with you, in case you should have another surgery or you still have some native hair to support but if you high nw without enough native hair and end up with poor results or poor donor area to continue that s mean you will end up with something disfigured you no body in the world have perfect hairline and nothing behind Regardless of HT standards think about it starting from middle even it will not affect your apearance so much but it will look good enough even with poor results and it will satisfy high nw cuz they are already bald it can stand alone until you make another surgery, and it will support it but starting from hairline with giant bald spot it will look odd for one year until you do another surgery in case you have a sucessful surgery, but if you have poor growth you are doomed For my case, the hairline is so perfect and few people told me which is bother me a lot, it look like a line drawn on my head and this is maybe it is so perfect and i need to remove some hair above the eyebrows or becuase i m so bald so this hairline does not suit me without dense hair, that is why i m skeptical
  16. HT soon i know it is better to shut up and not bother a lot of people here of my repeated question and endless threads Until the waiting game is finished, i cannot make action now cuz it is too early, and my attraction is only on the hair cuz it was not right for me from beginning For you and most of people here, you choose well and you know what you are doing from first day, that s why you do not have problem For me, it was a lucky game, because it was out of my control, i did not know anything about HT just general info, the surgeon Is not familar here, and the technique is vague, and even the hairline i did not choose it properly and left it to the surgon, so that is why i m full of doubtness from everything and always asking questions and try to see what i should do whether to fix or remove I did not know that HT is life commitment and should have many surgeries in your life, and always should take care of your hair and should take meds, I m full of regret and feeling stucked and i cannot do anything just wait, I want to shave or remove the hair not because i love being bald but because i want to end this doubtness and restore my life and focus on many things in life more important but i m stucked now fear of permenant scars and redness and look freaking unnatural if i shave or cut my hair So the only action that i can do now just ask if everything look normal and what the option that i have in worst case scenario Hope i clear my situation, and really i will try to stop asking questions
  17. i checked with couple of friends, they said it is better than before, but it is straight somehow, maybe if it was more steeper above the eyebrows it will look better
  18. The temple points are somethibg missing for sure, but i hoped a receded hairline to look more natural but it seems they gave me original hairline without temple But even, the hair before the temple point look so sharp and the hair should be lighter and above the eyebrow it does not look right If you look at it from distance you will feel something wrong, but closer it seems ok If i unplug couple of hairs to give more spaces I think it will look more natural It is not wrong and in the same time not right, so that is why it is crazy I need a doctor opinion i think, and now just wait the full results to decide
  19. Hi Maybe this my 1000th thread about hairline, But i m trying to get another opinion maybe i can understand Days, months just starring on my hairline, trying to understand what is wrong ? Measuring, taking pics from all sides, everything look fine when people check it, but for me no something not right from some corners, and front it drives me crazy is it receding ? irrigularities ? Missing temple? Is it because no growth yet? from first day of surgery i felt something not right this is how i feel about it I do not feel the front is a front, like the arrow shape, it gives me feeling like my forehead has stretched and become wider, i cannot feel the depth of my head from the sides, it is extremly sharp from side and wide, it should be curved, narrowed The front hairs are connected with the hairs from temple on the same level ,i feel it should lying behind it not on the same level and there is no curves it is goddamn straight even there are irrigularities but the hairs are so close or the whole hairline is wrong i dont know Even the hair on sides are slightly above my original hairline, but it does make me comfort at all I know it sounds crazy and maybe you do not get me, but this is how i feel and that is why i can not enjoy my hair transplant, and i want to remove it all ? And i wish i did not do any hairline I feel something should be removed from the hairline, it is so powerful Can this be solved ?
  20. I m using liquid spray it so easy to apply 30 second I m using only at night, it is impossible to put it in morning and go to work easily
  21. Thanks, i will try it And i will wait 6 months before doing anything, I m obssessed now with the idea of bald guy with hairline, and make me nervous and mad because it is unatural, I always see people high norwood and restore the hairline without anything behind, I never imagine i will become one of them someday so that s why i will remove the first zone i think in the end, i hope now i can remove it and make my hair more receded, so if i shave it look natural
  22. No definetly i will not do anything now and without doctor recommendation My scalp is always oily, espically evening, when i use ketecebazole shampoo, the hair look healthier
  23. Yes, that what they said and nobody usually look on crown Anyway, the hairline is another problem also, which is so straight and not soft, i will remove some hair to make it random but for sure not now
  24. Thanks, i will go to the barber tomorrow to see what i can do To be honest, my expectation was more than that and not like this hair I will be patient and wait 7 months and after i will decide (good growth/ another surgery) (poor growth/shaving, lasering zone 1, 2 in case the scalp is norma) My problem, is why they started from front and i m so bald, i was against that and i want to start from middle or crown but they convienced me this would be wrong as the front scalp is more important But now i think they did that to force me to do other surgeries to cover everything, if they started from crown maybe i will not like the whole thing and it will not affect me at all as it is on crown, but now thin hair in front, large bald spot in whole head, this so ugly and disgusting
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