After visiting this site for two years, I am going to take the plunge and post for the first time. All of your input has been invaluable as I evaluate options for refinement of previous work. By sharing my experinces I am hoping we can help each other.
I am 41 and married. I began losing my hair in my teens. This was devastating to me as a young man during the "big hair" and looks obsessed era of the 80's. It absolutely ruined what should have been some of the best years of my life as far as dating, going off to college, etc. (Who would have thought that 20 years later balding men would be comfortable enough to shave their heads completely and look great! I think it's wonderful and wish I could!) As living with it or turning to a hair system was unacceptable to me then, hair transplantation was an act of desperation. Thus my "resume" is as follows:
1983-1990 Three proceedures with Dr. Steven Mandy of Miami.
1992 One proceedure with Dr. Richard Boshardt of Lake County, Florida. Very fine "strip grafts" along frontal hairline to camoflage previous plugs.
1995 One proceedure with Dr. Reza Alidina of Orlando. Mini and micro grafts to frontal hairline area to further improve appearance.
The end result of this has been both a blessing and a curse. It certainly gave me more than I would have had and I feel like I'm one of the lucky ones as far as the older techniques. Although time took it's toll with more hairloss, I don't feel like I have an isolated "island" of hair. The shape and height of my hairline is fine. I get a haircut at least every two weeks to keep it presentable. On the other hand, it is still something I'm very self conscious of. I have suffered my share of funny looks and snide comments/questions, although these have decreased since the last proceedure in '95. My goals for correction/refinement are in order of importance:
1. Remove earlier plugs inappropriately placed in crown. Break up into FUs and redistribute elsewhere.
2. Undectable hairline!
3. Added density to front half of balding area,so can cut and wear hair more normally instead of feeling like I have to have a "combover".
4. Revision of old scarring to donor area if possible.
5. Realize that HT's cannot restore a full, thick head of hair, so not concerned about crown at this stage of my life. I feel like my hair loss has stabilized and never have tried Minoxidil or Propecia because I didn't think it would help at this stage of the game.
I feel like my goals are realistic given the improvements that many of you are achieving.I now live in Central Florida, only a short drive from the Orlando office and headquarters of one of the nationwide hair restoration conglomerates (need I say which?) While I don't want to judge their individual staff surgeons, things I've been seeing here are cause for concern. I've been in e-mail contact with both Dr. Rose and Dr. Charles after reading their many glowing recommendations. I don't have definate plans for a consult at this time due to financial constraints. I'm looking for a top notch, caring Dr. who will help me but who will be ethical and honest. I also understand that all I'm looking for may not be able to be accomplished in one proceedure.
PCC