Okay dear, This is major emotional. I know.
Have you considered your friends motives? Sometime your best friends can be cruel--hate to say it but it, makes them feel better ...
I had a "best" friend say to me that I would need to do something within 5 years or my perfect hair would be gone....Well the transplant fast fowarded that. I'll bet you have it all over your "friend". In many ways.
Women need to be extra careful with this. Plan on 6 months of research and competent advice here before doing anything . Otherwise you might really get into trouble.
There are very few doctors that wouldn't cater to your ever whim , pay their mortgage, scar you up and abandon you.
Your gonna get educated here : ). Try to relax kiddo.