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  1. Hello

    I'm a long term member although irregular poster on this forum.  I wanted to tell my HT journey. I had 1,621 grafts on 8th October 2020, so almost two years on.

    I've been receding slowly for a number of years and fortunately my hair loss has not been aggressive but I wanted to treat the areas lost at my hairline and temples and to lower the front a bit.  I'd always wanted to have some work done but never really had the courage to go ahead with it, and had put off preliminary bookings I had made, mainly because I was paranoid my friends and colleagues would notice.  I finally decided to take the plunge in October 2020, partly due to the ongoing covid lockdown at the time as I knew that transport etc wouldn't be busy.  Additionally I'd gone to remote working in my job, so although I only took a week's leave for the surgery at the time, I knew I could work from home when I returned to work.
     
     
    Prior to the surgery I had been liaising with Stephen from BHR to determine how many grafts I would need and geberally helping me prepare.  I don't recall precisely but I believe it was around 1500 - 2000. When I did arrive at the clinic, Dr Bisanga drew a hairline which I was happy with, this was quite conservative but I really disn't want to go too low due to the risk of future loss.
     
    The day of the surgery was very easy overall.  I arrived at the clinic around 12pm; I had some phone problems booking a cab but I got in touch with Stephen who was great and help arrange a cab to pick me up.  Upon arrival, the staff were very friendly and welcoming, immediately putting me at ease.  The clinic was very clean and modern looking. 
     
    From what I remember,  the surgery lasted around 6 hours with an hour for lunch in between.  Overall it was very confortable throughout; the only pain I felt was from the application of the anaesthetic which was quite painful.  Other han that the surgery was fine, I think I spent most of it sleeping or chatting with the doc and his staff.
     
    After the surgery the clinic ordered me a taxi to take me back to my air bnb.  The evening was very relaxing and I spent it just reading and cooking myself a readymeal I'd bought that morning.  The following day I went back to the clinic for a review of the work and to receive my after care products and post surgery instructions.  From there I booked a taxi to take me back to Brussels Midi where I took the Eurostar back to London.
     
    One of my biggest worries was travelling to and from the place in particularly returning however it was nowhere near as bad as I feared.  I think the staff at the |Eurostar are aware that men who are wearing bandanas are HT patients and know not to probe.  I'd say I was slightly nervous queueing up to go through but nobody said anything and in any case, I had a doctor's letter ready to show them if they did.   Fortunately because of lockdown the Eurostar and the tube in London were pretty empty  I live in London so took the tube home from Kings Cross.
     
    Special mention to Stephen at BHR who was fantastic throughout, very prompt with responding to queries and providing helpful information.  Also a mention to Ian who I am now liaising with and providing updates.
     
    Attached are photos at various  stages - pre op, immediately post op and at around 18 months.  Overall I am very happy with the result which I think is subtle but makes a difference - i'ts enough for me to style my hair up and wear forward if I want.  I didn't want it to be too dramatic as I didn't really want to risk people knowing.  I have actually toyed with the idea of adding a couple of hundred grafts to my left side but it's probably not needed at this stage.
     
    If I have missed any important details please let me know and any questions, please ask.  Apologies in advance if I take a while to reply as I'm going to be on holiday on Wednesday, but I will try to check back periodically.
     
    Also just a shout out here to the mods and everyone who has posted their results.  It's a fantastic resource where I gained lots of knowledge and information.
     
    Many thanks!

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  2. Looks great work mate.  Good luck with everything

    I have a similar level of loss to you and one of my worries is hiding a HT from colleagues when I return to work.  However looking at your day 12 pics the work looks virtually undetectable, which gives me confidence that mine might as well.

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  3. 2 hours ago, LaserCap said:

    Your results look uniform.  I think you are right, you may have gone on to lose more native hair.  Had it not been for the transplants, you would be in worse shape. Now, the question becomes, is the native hair still there?  Why not go on a medical regimen, (Propecia, Rogaine, PRP, Laser), and do it for a good year.  Take good photos and see what happens.  Worse case scenario, you lose a year. Bet to say you may return to have as close a density as to what you had 5 months post op.

     

     

    Bollocks to that

     

    Clearly a lot of transplanted hairs have shed.  If that happened to me after a HT I'd be fuming

  4. Lenney

    Thank you very much for your detailed reply!

    My own situation is that I haven't lost that much hair - probably a NW 2.5 but I can comb my hair forward at the side somewhat and spike it up at the front to minimise the appearance of recession.  The clinic I am in contact with believe that I would be able to comb hair forward over the area worked on somewhat to hide the work I wold have done.  I don't think I could get more than two weeks off to get it done.

    In answer to your tips:

    1.  I am on generic fin and this has definitely helped in maintaining the crown and slowing the recession.  My hair feels stronger since I started using it.

    2. Financial cost is something I'm happy to bear.  Its not idea as I have just commenced a mortgage but I can put aside some each month to pay for my HT.  Awkward recovery period is the main issue.  I have a bit of banter with workmates and work in a city office environment so I'm obviously nervous about people noticing.  I'd probably just say I went away somewhere hot and had a reaction to sun cream or something - whether they believe me is another matter.

    3. I think it would drastically help my confidence.  Despite my moderate recession I do find it affects my confidence around women.  I'd like to settle down quite soon so I feel this year is a good time - I am 34, 35 in the summer and first noticed recession around 15 years ago so am confident I will maintain most of my native hair.  I have read on here the transformation guys feel when they have a successful HT and I'd like to experience that.  Of course no surgery is a guarantee but I think I stand a good chance given my moderate loss.  

    4.  I have thought long and hard about the pros and cons and ultimately a HT it is something I want to do.  I was actually going to have one done last week but late last year a bought a flat and mortgage payments and furniture & bills etc, meant I had to delay the procedure for financial reasons.

     

    Thank you again for your help and I will be following your progress.  Best of luck for a good result!

  5. 10 minutes ago, Squidward said:

    How do you turn off notifications for a thread?

    This!

     

    I hope Payam resolves this and I will check updates but I don't need to be emailed every time someone replies.  I woke up this morning with about 20 email notifications for this thread.  I don't even remember subscribing for notifications.

  6. 6 hours ago, LaserCap said:

    Let' take it a step at a time.  You are young.  If you've shown the propensity to lose, you will continue losing.  That's a fact. You have a great deal of native hair but it seems you have diffused thinning throughout.  You are thinning into an advanced pattern.  I would imagine your goal is to have as much hair as you can.  It is imperative that you save all you can.  Medical therapy should be your first consideration.  Propecia, Rogaine, laser and PRP are the only modalities approved/released by the FDA for retention and enhancement of the native hair.  Why not give these a chance and see what they do.  

    Most believe it takes a full year to see what the meds are going to do.  So you could wait a year and then do a transplant procedure.  But that takes a whole other year to see the full result.  This is the reason why many patients, provided they are educated correctly, will do a combination of medical therapy and transplants.  Now, where to put the transplants?

    When you are interacting with others, that do you see?  The front.  

    Do some homework.  Look at the way people lose hair.  Particularly when they have an advanced pattern.  Notice how most keep hair in the front.and they thin the crown.  Mimic mother nature for the most natural result.  

    Lastly, be judicious with your grafts.  The donor is finite.  2500 grafts is not a lot of grafts but can have a very positive impact if concentrated in an area.  Placing them diffusely throughout the entire pattern is not only a mistake, it is irresponsible.

     

    agree with all of this except the part about laser and PRP whose benefits are dubious at best and are both ridiculously expensive

  7. I’d be annoyed as well Payam.  Clearly not enough of the grafts have grown (so far) and I think it’s very patronising for people to tell you your expectations were unrealistic.  Looking at your immediate post op pics you would expect very good density from that.

    I would wait a couple of months more though before you assess the final result however.  In the meantime I do think you should use toppik or some kind of concealer which will make the result appear thicker and more natural.  I don’t se ewhy it’s such a chore as you only need to do it once in the morning. 

    Also get on meds if you are not already.  Your pre-op pics show you have good hair on the crown and meds should thicken that up, reducing the need for further work.

    good luck mate! 

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