Bobman
Congatulations, I don't think she is being shallow for saying she was not attracted to your old picture. Now, if she had been married to you for 15 years and had 3 children by you and left you because you had gained weight or lost hair then she would be shallow. Most relationships start with a spark so don't worry about it. All the women I've been in love with there was a physical attraction at first otherwise it would be like going out and buying a horse. Again congratulations, I hope mine HT comes out as good as yours.
P.S. I will be posting photos of my results soon I'm at 4 months now and the new growth is really starting to take off. I'm finally starting to lose weight also which is also making a big difference.