Nah, this doesn’t make you a nightmare patient at all. If you want to remove oddly placed hairs do it. If you want to change the shape, do it. If you want more density, go for it.
Since you asked for advice, I will say this: if you want to change the shape and add density I would do that before removing any hair. Even mis-angled hair is hair and can be styled, especially at the length you seem to wear it and as is usually the case, more hair is best.