Hello everyone.
I need you help, please.
I will start by saying that I a female from Europe, of African descent with fine curly hair.
After couple of years of searching I decided on the surgery and chose a Dr. from the U. I had my surgery 2+ years.
The surgeon recommended FUT due to the large area that has to be filled. As the months went by I started noticing the scar in the donor area has stretched. And there is a lot of spacing in the middle section of the recipient area. This has taken a toll on me emotionally. It is hard to do anything with my hair because the partly empty areas are VERY visible and the scar is bothering me a lot.
I did contact my former doctor and tried to explain how much I am affected by the results. He offered another surgery costing 5-9K USD and "the scar revision is for free". Then he added "or you could just leave it like that no one will see it". I was surprised since I already explained that the scar was bothering me! This sentence combined with small things that happened after the surgery made me feel like a money machine and not a human being.
When I asked if there is a possibility the same would happen the second time he dismissed my concern and just said we can use more grafts and it will cost XYZ.
I am very unsure of what to do or where to go. Due to restrictions I was not able to travel to the US and when I decided on India things got bad there.
To be fair to his work, the line he made is BEAUTIFUL in my eyes. But I am very sceptical to his ethics and I do not feel like I am getting straight answers or a clear/realistic view of the results to be expected. I am afraid of spending even more money and then ending up with the same results again. I already spent 18,5K on the surgery+trip from Europe.
I want advice on what do next. Can you please recommend doctors in Turkey/Europe to consult? Or do you think it's a good idea to go and try find a solution with him?
PS: I apologize for my bad grammar
I added one photo from the side, but the other main scar is MUCH larger than that one.
Thank you SOO much in advance.