I'm new to the forum but so happy to be in a place where others are experiencing the same up and downs as me, it can be tough.
It's funny, when I started receding in my early 20's I thought "I wish I had the hair I had in my teens", then when I started thining in my early thirties I thought "I wish i had the receded hair of my early 20's" and now I'm balding all over I think how I would have been satisfied with the thining hair I had! I never thought I would get this bald!
My situation is slightly different though. My head has a lot of moles on it and I find them really ugly to look at so I want a HT to cover them up as much as anything else. If it wasn't for them I would probably just shave my head and accept my looks or atleast it would be easier to do so. It's hard looking in the mirror and knowing you look older and less attractive then you could be. I would say I think about my hair loss all through the day, don't like having my photo taken without a hat, all the things some of us have faced but I don't let it get me down too much,it cetainly hasn't made me depressed as such, I still do things I wat to do, travel,go out with friends. It's only hair-loss! it doesn't make me a bad person or duisgusting,just a bit uglier : ))
I tried Toppic but although it looked good ( back when I had enough hair for it to work ) I don't like the idea of getting a crutch because you can't live without them once you begin using them. I wear my cap a lot and look good with one on but then it's embarasing taking it off, so I tend not to wear it too often. Better people know what I look like from the start as opposed to surprising them later! I think people who wear hats all the time draw more attention to the hair loss because people know why you are wearing it constantly and then snigger. Better to be open,even make a joke of it. I recently got divorced so dating is hard but I've had sucsess,but not as much as I'd like. I agree with what others have said though about women and confidence, doesnt matter if you are bald or not really. I would say if it wasn't for my sexual deires my hair loss would mean nothing to me, i mean if I was in a male only world, prison etc I don't think I could care less, although ofcourse I hope I never test this theory!
Anyway I have decided to have a HT ( probably with Dr.Path ) sometime next year. I'm lucky though in the fact that I'm not expecting miracles i.e a big full head of luxurient hair, but will be happy with enough to hide my moles better ( which are mainly at the front ) and a better frame for my face. Not too bothered about the crown, I could convert to Judaism and where a skull cap! ( I actually investigated which religions wear hats so that I could have an excuse to wear one but thought that a Sikh's turban on a white man would look too funny : ))
Anyway great to find this forum, look forwards to getting to kno some of you better.
Ben