Let's start with the background info. I'm 23 years old and have been losing my hair since about 18/19 years old. I've been taking something(first Rogaine, then Propecia) since I was about 20 and although I'm sure that the medication has helped to reduce my hair loss, I've still been losing hair. I have a noticable bald spot and the hair in the first few inches of the front of my hair is pretty sparse. I comb it forward and you can tell that my hair is thinning, but it's not horrible yet(if I weren't surrounded by other kids with full heads of hair I "might" not mind so much).
Anyway, I've spoken with two doctors about getting a hair transplant already(Dr. Nusbaum and Dr. Sorrel Resnik, both in Miami) and am seriously considering the procedure. I have substantial fears about having a weird looking head of hair as I age and lose more. My grandparents have told me that they'll cover any costs of a transplantation, so that's not a concern. Also, I'm not really comfortable with the fact that all that can be done for me is filling in the front to be more dense. Sometimes I look at my hair and think that the difference wouldn't be worth it and other times I see my hair and can't wait for the day when my hair feels normal again.
Regarding the thickness of my hair, it's not very dense on top, has solid thickness on the sides, and is very dense in the back. I have a family history of baldness on both sides of my family and both my father and uncle would be very high(6 or 7) on the scale of baldness(it's all women on my mom's side, but even most of them have seen their hair start to thin).
Any advice or suggestions anyone can give me would be very appreciated. At the present I'm leaning towards not getting the transplantation done, mainly because of the fear of long-term damage and the benefits that can be gotten from waiting for some future breakthrough in the field.