Thanks for the replies guys. I'm guessing, to some extant and to some degree, all of us on this site have felt the way I do. I wouldn't mind so much if my MPB was in better pattern....I've used Toppik for a little while now and just got some Kerasome. My hair has thinned out on top so much, I don't really think these are even worth it. And this Kerasome stuff is pretty nasty.
Robert, your suggestion about hair style is a good one, but there's not really much I can do. The scar in back from my HT prevents anything really short. I had about 1600 grafts back in 92. I don't know, for a couple years there everything was good. I was happy with the HT and my thinning was alright. I got married and thankfully all my wedding photos look pretty good hairwise. I tried Propecia about five years ago, but felt some uncomfortable side effects. Maybe I should have stuck it out....
Kez, 3500 grafts would suit me well I suppose. But man, that's a lot of cash. I hear your point about holding out as well. We'll see I guess.
Thanks again guys.