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  1. Emporor, while I do not agree with everything you say, I am impressed by many keen observations that you have made. Thanks for taking the time to thoroughly review my situation. While I learned a lot from this experience, one thing that I definitely learned from this experience, and that I can not over-state, is that pre-op patient/physician communication is extremely important.

  2. Mrjb, as I stated in my initial statement, I am taking propecia. I have had 2 HT's totaling 4500 grafts in the frontal/mid section of my scalp. Also as I have previously said, its not coverage that is the problem, it is the placement of the grafts (insufficient grafts placed in the temple areas proportionally to the top area). From the front, density appearance is sufficient...........from the sides, it looks too thin.

  3. Ugh.........I knew should have not agreed to say the doctor's name. I never said or implied that Dr Rose was not listening to me or ignoring me, or that I had not met with him to review my results. My only intention was to get feedback on how my HT looked because what my doctor thinks of it and what I think of it is different. It was a bit of a relief to receive plenty of emails that validated my concerns, generally speaking.......thats all I was looking for from a "peace of mind" standpoint.............end of story.

     

    That being said, just for the record, I need to clarify Dr Rose's statement "I thought he should consider stopping at that point". I met with Dr Rose in Sept/Oct of 2005 and we both agreed that I could use another approximately 1500 grafts to fill in some areas after my first HT. I subsequently arranged for a surgery in Feb 2008 for a 2000 graft session (the additional 500 grafts were my idea). When I arrived at Dr Rose's office the morning of the surgery, the very first thing he said to me was that I did not need another HT. That statement really flustered me at that point. (While I appreciated his honesty, after prepping for surgery for 2+ weeks, no alcohol, no meds/vitamins, taking time off of work, waking up at 3 AM and driving 2 1/2 hours, etc., I was ready to go for the surgery and could not turn back at that point.) From there, I continued to be flustered and rushed things and the communication was not the best, which is probably the main factor on how I got to where I am today. We were just never on the same page that day, as far as my goals were concerned.........major regret.

  4. Nelly, here is the deal. I can't let my hair grow out as long as before because I do have more density on top. Unfortunately, this density was not provided in my temple areas also. So if I keep it short, it looks fine from the front and top, but the temple areas are weak looking. If I let it grow to how I use to keep my hair length, my frontal and top area bulk up and it looks like sh#t, while the temples look better. My doc thinks "it looks great". While he is a nice and honest guy, I think his ego gets in the way. After a 2nd HT of 2200 grafts, I was hoping to be able to take a break and not worry about anymore surgeries for a while. I do not believe my 3 goals or this HT; add density to my right side to equal out my left side, "fill in" sparse areas from my first surgery, and improve my hairlines, were actually met. At this point, I have lost confidence in the process altogether.

     

    The bottom line is that I should never have gone for a 2nd HT. While my first one was not perfect, more grafts do not necessarily mean a better look. Actually, more grafts have only increased my risk of separation and given me a worse look.

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