How is getting a hair transplant a rite of passage? Are you trying to gatekeep hair transplants 🤣Being bald/balding during the prime years of your life is absolutely miserable, and most people given the chance would remedy this provided they have the money and time (which I do). Balding at 35 and balding at 22 are two completely different things. To want a hair transplant at 22 does not indicate any sort of mental illness as you are suggesting, it is completely reasonable. Is going on accutane because you have acne as a teenager indicative of mental illness? Acne is just a part of life, as is hair loss. If I was losing my hair in my thirties, so be it. I am 22, meant to be at the peak of my physical attractiveness and SMV and yet am losing my hair rapidly, I look much older than I actually am as a result of this.
"Most blokes make their peace with their hair loss and save themselves from a life time of medicine and surgeries"
I don't think they make peace with it, rather, they cope with it and get on with it living life at a standard which is worse than if they had a full head of hair.
You talk about getting botched, but I don't really know what you mean by that? Could you explain further