I got cold feet just the other day. Had a consultation with Dr Benham, and I got the same feeling you did, about 'feeling like he was the right doctor'. Then his sales guy came in to close the deal and I just got really weird vibes from him. A real slick operator, needy, and he pointed to his hairline and said look how good Benham's work is, and it looked awful. Man, the timing and convenience and price were all there. I was gonna have the procedure on New Years. Was quoted 2k grafts just like you, but I honestly think I have a lot more hairloss / thin hair than you , which was also concerning. So I cancelled.
I've been trying to rush this to have it heal in time for a family members wedding in october, but I think I need to be okay not rushing it. Everytime I look in the mirror I want it now, but its such an important / permanant decision. Maybe I will cancel with Camacho in Bogota Hairlines in march as well, but I need to see...