Good morning everyone - I am a first time poster, very grateful to have found this incredible forum. I am looking for some advice please?
...oh and sorry for the long first post!
I had a beautiful thick head of hair in my teens, and I was very proud of it, but started to go bald in my early 20's, with signs first being visible back in 1999 when I was still a little ankle biter at only 18 years old.
Back then I can remember feeling sick, embarrassed, and sometimes it got quite depressing, but though I did try some magic spells and potions from the market place, nothing seemed to help, and my hair got worse and worse over the 10 years that followed. I think can remember reading about hair transplants, but back then it must have been less popular, and possibly much more expensive. I decided hair loss prevention was something I could never have, something for celebrities and rich people..
I eventually made peace with my situation, and though I lost my sense of pride in appearance somewhat (I have a rather odd shaped head sadly...) I started shaving my head and accepted I would never look "nice" again. I also learnt to avoid the camera, and it is slightly comical to notice that there are no photos of me between the ages of 22 and 30 years old. I do not know of one photograph of me in my late 20's at all...!
I am lucky enough to have a beautiful wife and young children; so I can't complain about life really. I think I had lost pretty much all my top hair by around age 30; and I am 41 years old now. I eventually learnt to just let myself get photographed, and I just accept that I'm that funny looking bald thing in a given photo. I don't really think about it now. I don't think much has changed with my hair in the last 10 years, but then again I don't think it can get much worse... I attach some glamour shots!
So... anyway...
Recently I met a guy who had a nice head of hair, and he said to me "I used to be just like you, and I had a hair transplant". I was intrigued, but skeptical, but I asked him a few questions and he explained he had been through two procedures. The first he paid £2,000 for and I forget where he said it was (I think Hungary?), and second he said he paid £1,500 for and he had done in Turkey. I did not get the chance to ask him that many questions, but he was very positive about the experience.
I did some of my own research, and found hundreds of "before and after" shots. However it seems a lot of people get loss at the crown, or the temples, and they have transplants to fill these in. But I have not found anyone with a situation as dire as mine.
I don't care about having a "perfect" Justin Beber head of hair. I'd just like enough to not be bald. It does not have to be perfect, and I don't care if it still looks a bit thin, or has the appearance that I am receding. But just enough to I don't look at photos and think I look like an odd shaped potato, with a face on it would be very nice! But the other thing is I am not rich either, so I could not justify a massive expense. Some of the £1,500 "hair mills" would be perfectly affordable for me, but many seem to be very critical of them - though I am not sure exactly what the problem with them is.
Does anyone know if it is worth me looking into this, or am I too far gone?
Thanks in advance everyone!