sizzle

I stumbled on this thread while surfing the internet, and since I'm an attractive single woman actively dating men of all appearances, I read all 6 pages with interest. I've never met or seen any of the posters, and have no idea what any of you look like or how much hair you have today. It doesn't matter. Simply based on what's written here, I'd date Vasilius in a heartbeat and almost certainly come back wanting more. He's intelligent, well-spoken and empowered, doesn't use his "weaknesses" as excuses, and is generous with his time trying to help others. Keep in mind that I have zero idea what he looks like. It's his personality that's sexy. In contrast, other posters here come across as whiny, defensive individuals who hide behind their insecurities and prefer to see themselves as victims. I'd try hard not to date you and if I found myself on a date with you by mistake, it would be over soon - regardless of what you looked like or how much hair you had. To the original poster - why not just accept the girl's statement that she wasn't ready to date? And when you saw her later she was? Just think, you could be in a relationship with her now if you chose to trust her words instead of substituting your own deep insecurities. And yes, sometimes people are shallow. Just yesterday I got rejected because the guy I was emailing with wanted a girl taller than 5'8. Oh well, so what? I'm a pretty splendid package wrapped in a 5'4 frame and if he doesn't like that, someone else will. It's his loss, not mine. Hang in there guys, you worry too much. Short and bald is perfect if it comes with the right person attached.