This is my first post on any hair loss forum, and I hope that my experiences will be of use to someone. I've certainly gained from the advice given in many posts on different forums.
I'm in my early 40s, my hair loss started a long time ago. Last year I finally decided to do something about it, researched, met with Spex up in Nottingham and started on the meds (generic finasteride). I'd decided that the HT route was for me, my donor area is pretty good and that was always part of my problem: thick at the sides and back and growing sparser at the front especially. My hair loss was becoming more and more obvious and any mention of hair loss, in any context and I would change the conversation. I dreaded anyone mentioning it.
Luckily I am a teacher so I could make an appointment for a HT with Dr. Feller for the start of my summer holidays. It will give me 4 weeks recovery time and I hope it will be enough. I had 3535 grafts in the frontal area (I'll post the photos when I get them).
As for the meds, by the 5th month they had some effect on the crown and sides, but seemed to have thinned out the front. However, I got some very bad side ??“ effects (bad pain in the 'nether' regions!) and I had to give them up for two weeks. I've tried to start them again, this time on half ??“ dose. I'll see how they go.
As for the HT, I arrived in NY on the Saturday, and my HT was on the Tuesday. The few days in NY were great and the journey to Great Neck easy ??“ Penn Station, the Long Island expressway and then the Andrew hotel. The hotel was expensive but really good; the staff left me alone, the room was comfortable and they even let me check out at 3pm on my final day, before I took a taxi back to JFK ($50).
I walked to Dr. Feller's surgery the day before the surgery and it's only 15 minutes from the hotel. It's easy to get a map from google maps. It was very warm, but the walk the next morning was a lot less stressful than waiting around for another cab. I arrived at 7.30am, very nervous, but Dr. Feller was friendly and put me at my ease. He drew a new hairline on my scalp, we chatted and then I had the donor site anaesthetised and although his assistant Anna warned me that this was the worst point it really wasn't very painful. The day went quickly and I just sat back and listened to his technicians chat whilst they put in the grafts. I was very keen to get involved in their conversations but didn't feel in the best position to do so! I think it was all finished about 3.30pm (I was a little shell shocked by then) and Dr Feller took some photos. I was quite excited with my new hairline, although I looked a terrible state, but by this time all I wanted to do was get back to the hotel and hide.
The flight back was good (Virgin Atlantic) although like many other UK patients I was worried about the JFK airport security. No big deal, I was through the security before I knew it and although the security guard (a woman) gave my scalp a funny look I just walked on and didn't look back. UK passport control didn't ask me to take off the baseball cap.
Now I'm home and it's exactly two weeks on. The worst part of the whole experience is my haircut at the moment ??“ shaved down on top (and growing back very slowly), and thick at the sides. The staples came out on Friday and although a little painful (take a few paracetemols first) it was a great relief. I cut my own hair with clippers for the first time the day after: not a great result but it looks and feels a lot better. Putting aloe vera on the recipient area has really helped and I'm taking MSM to speed up the growth on top and hide what I've done. I now have another 2 weeks for the hair to equal out a bit and then hope I can cut it short enough without the donor scar and 'shelf' in the back of my head showing. No-one apart from those reading this post (and Dr.Feller and Spex) knows about the HT. I'll see how secret I can keep it: I prefer it that way. Luckily (!) I live alone so I've been able to lock myself away a bit.
The care given to me by Dr Feller and his staff was excellent and I would definitely do the same again. Thanks to all the posters on the various forums for your advice. Thanks also to Spex for his initial advice. I hope that this information is useful to those considering a transplant: if anyone wants to know anything else just ask.
sainthistory