Thanks alot for your reply Bobilero, its good to know that someone else only started suffering the sides after 3 years so im not alone. Only regret is that I rode through it for almost a year until it was too much so I hope it wont have caused permenant damage. Not fully back to normal but defo on the right track.
Will take your advice about the minoxidil and maybe try saw palmetto. Strange that some HT docs will tell you that you need to take fin if you are getting a HT. I guess they are worried about the potential of loosing more of the natural hair rather than the new hair not growing out.
Was thinking if it gets too thin in non HT areas I could buzz it down but then not sure if that is good for the 1st HT hair or how it will look. Hopefully the loss will stabilise in the next few months.
How did you find the loss when you stopped taking it? Was it major?