Hi everyone,
My name is Dean and I'm a new member to this site, living in the UK. I've been reading the site as a guest, for a good few months now though.
I'm here, hoping for advice and knowledge if possible please, as I'm now starting to experience thinning, so first, it's probably worth giving a little background information to you.
My Background:
I'm 31 years old, almost 32. My father and brother (two years older) have both suffered from male pattern baldness. So far, well, until about two years back, I didn't have any signs of this and I guess stupidly, thought I might be the one who it skips. I know, stupid right?
I've suffered from acne since the age of 17, which was terrible back then. Luckily, this has settled down, but is still there at various times.
Over the last two years, I've been very stressed with work and other personal issues I've had to face. When I say this, I don't just mean your normal everyday stress of work. I mean, I've had continues fits of rage and flying off the handle at a lot of things on a daily basis. This could be due to a disagreement between people, work related stress, travel/road rage and just wear and tear of things in my personal life. Obviously these things are bad and I am doing my best to change things for my general health to improve anyway.
I have also smoked for the last 10 years, but am currently trying to stop. I appreciate that again, this is a concern for my overall health, but also, blood circulation, which is something you need to keep healthy and when we talk about hair loss.
My Hair Situation:
My problem as mentioned in my first couple of lines, is that I've noticed thinning in the vertex area for the last two years. In fact, it's only really been the last six months, that I've really noticed it.
My front hairline, touch wood, seems to be relatively healthy at the moment. I've also felt, that my general hair quality seems to be less healthy than it used to be. By this, I mean that if I grab some hair between my fingers, it seems a lot thinner than it did six months ago. Whilst the vertex area seems to be lacking a good packing of hair, the rest of my hair, although not seeming to lack the dense packing, seems unhealthy if you will. Is this part
of the hair loss routine?
I've already started suffering the mental side of this. By that I mean, I'm constantly looking at guys with similar problems and seeing how they wear their hair. Picturing myself with no hair and really struggling to cope to be honest. My hair when styled, gives me a big confidence
boost. I'm scared at how I will cope. I guess if I were older, between 50 and 60, you kind of accept it to an extent. It's part of getting older. But I think I have a good few years left in me at the moment and would love to keep my hair for as long as possible.
I hope the previous two sections have given an insight to where I am and a bit about my health and current situation.
I therefore have the following areas of concern and need advice on, so any advice or help would be great please.
1) My Hair
Does the picture and my comments solely mean this is MPB or could my hair loss be attributed to my stress and general not very healthy being at the moment and the last two years? Also given that my father is bald and my brother is currently losing his hair.
2) Medications, hair transplant or both?
I guess I'm hoping those in the know or medical members of this board will be able to advise on this, looking at my picture and reading my story. Should I start using medications or consider a hair transplant at this stage?
3) If Hair Transplant is the way forward….
I've read a lot on this site, that suggests that the UK is the worst place to have transplant surgery. Is there anyone in the UK or who has had this surgery in the UK who can either confirm or deny this myth? I mean, I've looked at the Private Clinic in Harley Street….Dr Raghu Reddy….who seems impressive in what he calls 3G FUE, but I'm concerned
that the before/after pictures on the surgeons sites (not just Private Clinic, but all HT clinic) are showing patients with concealer and don't give a full representation of the final 'look'. Also, I've read that the vertex/crown is the hardest part to re-create. Am I basically looking at this as not an option for me?
4) If medication is the way to go….
Again, I've read good and bad things about the hair loss medications such as Finasteride and Minoxidil. I even read in one of the national newspapers today, that Wayne Rooney used Propecia and this is causing men to suffer sexual and male organ problems. True?
Also on the medication, if it is safe to use, how do I go about obtaining it? I'm not one to buy medication from the internet unless it's from a supplier I know. Therefore, do I need to go to my doctor or hair clinic?
And lastly, what kind of results, based on my picture, can I realistically expert to achieve from medications? I know some have said there hair is thicker after use. Some have even re-grown hair. Is this achievable in my vertex thinning area?
Just to point out, my doctors practice is pretty useless. I suffer from hayfever and went
to them to ask for something stronger than over the counter drugs, which no longer work. Oh yes Dean, try these tablets and eye drops. ?7.50 per prescription item. Pharmacist told me that both items were over the counter and were priced at ?2.99 and ?4.99. What a joke.
Goals:
What I'd like to achieve, is to go via the best route of protecting and looking after the hair I have with either medication or whatever is required and making it stronger. To slow or even stop the balding process any further. Possibly re-grow hair, or have a transplant on my vertex area and then keep this healthy and alive with medication if this suits my situation.
So I think maybe, if anyone can help give advice, I would be most thankful.
I guess my questions are:
1) Am I losing my hair to MPB or could it be due to stress and unhealthy lifestyle, given that my father and bother have MPB?
2) If it is MPB, the first steps I need to take?
3) Medications, hair transplant or both?
4) If medication is needed, what do I need to look at? Where do I go for this - doctor/hair clinic/online?
5) What results could I expect to see with medication? Can it stop hair loss and if so, for how long?
6) If hair transplant on vertex is needed - any members from the UK have experiences to share? Any members had successful vertex transplants?
7) Would use of medications on top of say a successful vertex transplant, keep the hair alive for a long time?
8) Any further advice or knowledge to help me on my journey?
I look forward to your responses guys and thank you in advance to those offer help or advice. I also hope that me sharing my story, which non-members might read, will show them it's OK to be open and ask for help. I need help as I'm struggling on my own
and I've joined the site to ask for that help please. I'd also like to contribute to the site as my journey continues, so I can become a good source of information for others in years to come.
Many Thanks,
Dean.