I've been taking propecia for 12 months now. It has only helped the back third to be honest. The front third seems to be getting worse. This has had a really bad effect on me. I've seen pics on this site of guys my age who have more aggressive hairloss than me, but that doesn't make me feel better.
I saw a great post on here called "dear young guys" which i found really insightful and helpful. I've been trying to go to the gym a lot to take my mind off it, but it seems to be only a temporary rest bite before i feel sad again. One of the other interesting things from that post was described as something like "we see ourselves through the way others see us" and that is something which bothers me terribly. Fairly frequently, I see people look at me in the street as if to say "I can't work out how old this guy is" because i look young but my hair gives the opposite impression i guess. It is very disconcerting for me and makes me feel really self-conscious. It's tough enough for me being the short guy of the group, but being the short bald guy would be horrific in my age group.
I realise how important it is to view hairloss rationally and not emotionally after reading these boards. It's easier said than done though. Sometimes it stops me from sleeping. It often stops me from studying (I'm in my final year at uni). When I was 17,18,19 I would go to a hairdressers rather than a barbers to get me hair cut. It's more expensive but i did it because it gave me an enormous sense of pride and confidence. Now I dread having a haircut and find the whole experience quite humiliating. I think the most hurtful thing about all of this is that this is a really important time in a young guys life. A lot of my friends are getting into relatonships, but I feel like I've lost my confidence. There aren't many balding guys our age so it makes it all the more difficult.
When I look through these boards and see 30-40 year old guys with great HTs it gives me great hope. But it also makes me quite angry because they are not the guys who feel the effects of hairloss the most. It is guys in their early 20s who do and yet we are the guys who are generally not candidates for a HT.
I'm sorry if all this was long winded and a bit jumbled, but I really wanted to air my thoughts. I'm going to see dr lindsey and spex next month in London so I'll hear what they have to say about my situation, but I fear they will say I'm too young for a HT.