Thank you all for your comments i really appreciate it.
you have given me a lot of useful information there.
i am not yet looking for any surgery but may do in later life depending on how my hair goes (if i lose any).
i think i will take your advice and see a dermatologist and i will post back here with any information he gives me.
i do appreciate it.
also yes i have tried short hair, well not exactly short but short for me, and as i have had long hair since i was a child its very hard for me to adjust to short hair. im tryikng to take it slow and gradually get shorter each tim ei get ti cut.
also Future_HT_Doc you say you have similar hair, i was wondering if you have any tips of styles that may help as i dont know anyone with similar hair to me therefore its hard to get advice on a style and im to afraid to just go for it incase it doesnt look right.
again thank you all so os much it has made me feel a bit better
-dan