Finally, after hearing a lot of good things about Dr.Bernstein, I had the opportunity to meet him on Saturday 10/26.
As soon as I walked in, I was introduced to Dr.Badamo and he went through the questionaire with me asking about my health and few other questions. He then drew the hair line and showed it to me in the mirror. I was not happy with the hair line at all. He asked me to hang on while he went to get Dr.Bernstein.
Dr.Bernstein came into the room, he completely erased the hairline drawing and re-drew the new hair line which I liked. I then proceeded to tell Dr.Bernstein that I would like a mega session of about 2400 grafts or more mostly in the front area. After careful examination this is what Dr.B said.
1) He will do a 1500 - 1900 graft mostly in the frontal area but he is not guaranteeing 1900. I will pay for 1500 in advance. I believe this is due to the hair density in the donor area. My hair density is 1.6 (which is little below the average).
2) He asked me to get onto Propecia right away. I told him how I have heard of few sexual side-effects from Propecia. But he said those side effects are only in 2% of the men who take propecia. I am still reluctant to use propecia - I would like to keep my wife happy in the bed.
3) I asked him what kind of hair density I can expect from the HT? His answered made me little bit depressed. I was expecting to hear 30 - 40 per square centimeter. But he said they will place around 20 per square centimeter. He then went on to tell me how it is the placement not the density that will give a more natural look.
4) I will have a 23 cm long scar in the donor area.
I now have the following questions in front of me and I don't know if I should go ahead with HT.
1) I don't know what kind of fullness I will get with only 1500 grafts. If people can still see my scalp in the front area, is it worth going thru the pain, the scar and spending over 12K to do this HT?
2) Should I bite the bullet and try propecia for six months to a year and see if I experience complete hair re-growth. If not I can go with HT.
3) Should I just give up this entire HT idea and accept to live with the hair loss.
What do you guys think? I am definitely planning to go to their open house next month and see the real patients there. May be that will give some kind of idea as to what 1500 graft procedure will look like.
meelak