Getting over a botched hair transplant

[Nisa88]

Hi, I really don’t know what to say…. I really ashamed and feel really ugly. I have a botched hair transplant few years ago and I really struggling to get over it. I have therapy and medication for the past few years but nothing seems to help. I have PSTD as well, it really affects me. I don’t think that much can be done, I don’t have facial hair. Natural clinic in Istanbul took away my beauty. I look like a freak, I cry nearly everyday. My life is a complete mess, I get triggered when I see people can do nice hair styles I can’t. I can’t even go in to a hair salon because I do embarrassed. Honestly I can’t live like this anymore. Please can someone give me some advise, I just don’t think there is no hope for me. I am even overwhelmed whilst writing this, it’s taken over my life. I am a woman by the way… my life is falling into pieces, constantly breaking down everywhere I go so I just stay inside most of the time.

[Pbaird98]

Just posted on the on the other thread, a way forward would be seeking a repair, so Dr Mwamba or Dr Bisanga… both are skilled with Afro centric hair and also with repairs. Reach out to both of them 👍🏿

[BaldV]

You need to stop blaming yourself, we are humans and we all make mistakes, move forward from this and focus on the positives of your future, also I am sure many men will find you attractive and not care.

[HairFunk]

2 hours ago, BaldV said:

You need to stop blaming yourself, we are humans and we all make mistakes, move forward from this and focus on the positives of your future, also I am sure many men will find you attractive and not care.

I need to echo this. You must not be so hard on yourself. You could look into SMP treatment to help with the look of density throughout your scalp... many use it to great effect. 

[HappyMan2021]

have you thought about trying out a hair system/wig?

[follically challenged]

6 hours ago, Nisa88 said:

Hi, I really don’t know what to say…. I really ashamed and feel really ugly. I have a botched hair transplant few years ago and I really struggling to get over it. I have therapy and medication for the past few years but nothing seems to help. I have PSTD as well, it really affects me. I don’t think that much can be done, I don’t have facial hair. Natural clinic in Istanbul took away my beauty. I look like a freak, I cry nearly everyday. My life is a complete mess, I get triggered when I see people can do nice hair styles I can’t. I can’t even go in to a hair salon because I do embarrassed. Honestly I can’t live like this anymore. Please can someone give me some advise, I just don’t think there is no hope for me. I am even overwhelmed whilst writing this, it’s taken over my life. I am a woman by the way… my life is falling into pieces, constantly breaking down everywhere I go so I just stay inside most of the time.

So sorry to hear, but hang in there. You are not the first and you will not be the last to be left feeling wronged by such a 'clinic'.

Have you considered SMP to perhaps lessen the effect of the patchy areas...? That could perhaps be an option if you do some serious research and go to the right people.  

Either way, there will be some light at the end of the tunnel eventually. Many people have been repaired here. Stay strong. 

No matter how upset you get, just keep hanging in there. Give it time. This too shall pass. 

[Silent123]

On 3/19/2023 at 5:30 PM, Pbaird98 said:

Just posted on the on the other thread, a way forward would be seeking a repair, so Dr Mwamba or Dr Bisanga… both are skilled with Afro centric hair and also with repairs. Reach out to both of them 👍🏿

Dr Umar in LA could also be a good call. He has done many great repairs. Certainly worth reaching out to see what options may be available. Scalp Pigmentation could also be a potential quick fix to tie you over.....

[mavigo]

Have you consulted any physicians about a repair? This website would be a good start. 

[HairFunk]

Keep us posted. You do have options. I think SMP would really help you in the interim as a quick fix. Often results are seen in 2-3 weeks. Then consult with a surgeon to explore FUE or even FUT depending..... 

[Melvin- Moderator]

@Nisa88 We're here to help. Can you give us some background? How many grafts did they extract? We have some excellent surgeons that specialize in Afro hair. There are plenty of options, do not beat yourself up. Believe me. You are in the right place. Have you consulted with any surgeons for a possible repair?