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  1. Now let me just say a bunch of you may remember me posting asking about HTs and what not. I'll tell you a little background information. I am 20 years old and experiencing a recession at the temples and hairline and diffuse thinning. A lot of the depressed posts I've made in the past were from a serious depression that the drug finnasteride gave me. I am now long off that and fully recovered (thank God). But let me say one thing... I'm not preaching. Don't listen to me if you don't want to. But I've learned A LOT lately and I just want to tell you all to maybe try and help a few people out that aresuffering just like I was. BE YOURSELF. Chances are if you are REALLY down about your hairloss it is because you really aren't that great with talking to women in the first place and sort of rely on your looks to get a conversation going. Now thats fine, thats how I was...until I realized why the hell do I find it easier to talk to a guy then a girl? Girls are easier to talk to and usually nicer and what not...it just makes no sense, you only live once. If youve ever seen the 40 year old virgin I believe seth rogan says something similar to "Im ugly as hell according to most americans standards, but I know how to talk to women and that makes the difference" or something like that. And my God is it true. Just by carrying myself better, and working out and gaining confidence from the gym I have more girls talking to me and just find it easier to start up a conversation. Love yourself, believe in yourself. When I was depressed, all I noticed was good looking guys with full heads of hair dating really hot women. Now its funny because I buzz my hair and don't care NEARLY as much and all I seem to notice is goofy looking / balding men with hotties. My sister is about to marry a very overweight (rather hairy) Italian man who she is absolutely in love with. And all my life I've been told from my friends (believe me I've heard it) that she was so good looking. Don't get me wrong, some women are absolutely shallow looking for some guido guy who will more than likely break her heart and leave her with absolutely nothing. Whether the girl has been through that before or is just smart enough to see it coming, there are A LOT of women looking for personality in a guy. You only live once. People just want to be happy. Hell, isnt that why we are here? Sometimes it seems like hair is the most important thing in the world but it just isn't. Go to the gym, work on what you CAN control, and go out into the world and live like theres no tomorrow. With all the disease and tragedies in this world, tomorrow is not guaranteed. I promise everybody here they can do it. Try it for a few weeks and see how much better your life becomes, please. It worked for me. PS: If you can make a girl laugh...you can usually end up doing a lot more than that with her if you know what I mean. Some girls will ALWAYS go for looks, but it tends to be the smart ones, and the ones worth having, that want a good man, who keeps himself in shape, and has a good heart.
  2. Now let me just say a bunch of you may remember me posting asking about HTs and what not. I'll tell you a little background information. I am 20 years old and experiencing a recession at the temples and hairline and diffuse thinning. A lot of the depressed posts I've made in the past were from a serious depression that the drug finnasteride gave me. I am now long off that and fully recovered (thank God). But let me say one thing... I'm not preaching. Don't listen to me if you don't want to. But I've learned A LOT lately and I just want to tell you all to maybe try and help a few people out that aresuffering just like I was. BE YOURSELF. Chances are if you are REALLY down about your hairloss it is because you really aren't that great with talking to women in the first place and sort of rely on your looks to get a conversation going. Now thats fine, thats how I was...until I realized why the hell do I find it easier to talk to a guy then a girl? Girls are easier to talk to and usually nicer and what not...it just makes no sense, you only live once. If youve ever seen the 40 year old virgin I believe seth rogan says something similar to "Im ugly as hell according to most americans standards, but I know how to talk to women and that makes the difference" or something like that. And my God is it true. Just by carrying myself better, and working out and gaining confidence from the gym I have more girls talking to me and just find it easier to start up a conversation. Love yourself, believe in yourself. When I was depressed, all I noticed was good looking guys with full heads of hair dating really hot women. Now its funny because I buzz my hair and don't care NEARLY as much and all I seem to notice is goofy looking / balding men with hotties. My sister is about to marry a very overweight (rather hairy) Italian man who she is absolutely in love with. And all my life I've been told from my friends (believe me I've heard it) that she was so good looking. Don't get me wrong, some women are absolutely shallow looking for some guido guy who will more than likely break her heart and leave her with absolutely nothing. Whether the girl has been through that before or is just smart enough to see it coming, there are A LOT of women looking for personality in a guy. You only live once. People just want to be happy. Hell, isnt that why we are here? Sometimes it seems like hair is the most important thing in the world but it just isn't. Go to the gym, work on what you CAN control, and go out into the world and live like theres no tomorrow. With all the disease and tragedies in this world, tomorrow is not guaranteed. I promise everybody here they can do it. Try it for a few weeks and see how much better your life becomes, please. It worked for me. PS: If you can make a girl laugh...you can usually end up doing a lot more than that with her if you know what I mean. Some girls will ALWAYS go for looks, but it tends to be the smart ones, and the ones worth having, that want a good man, who keeps himself in shape, and has a good heart.
  3. How did you go about it? Does the partial system blend well / remain undetectable?
  4. How did you go about it? Does the partial system blend well / remain undetectable?
  5. The thing is, ive tried it and I look HORRIBLE with a shaved head. In my opinion. And thats all that matters. And Ive tried propecia, I was on it for 7 months and unable to use my penis for anything that wasn't urinating. Also, it gave me awful anxiety and depression that is now gone since stopping. I use rogaine, it doesnt seem to do much. What about my idea? Is this not a decent idea? I feel like it would work.
  6. I'm 19 years old, Im gonna get pics online soon. But I have diffuse thinning and a receeding hairline. The diffuse is not that bad, I still have pretty solid coverage over my head. What if I were to get a hair transplant on basically the front 2/3 of my head to establish the hairline and front and what not and use a hair system on the back when things begin to get real thin? I figure I comb my hair forward anyway, it wiill be hard to tell I have a piece in the back. Is this a legit path to take?
  7. I'm 19 years old, Im gonna get pics online soon. But I have diffuse thinning and a receeding hairline. The diffuse is not that bad, I still have pretty solid coverage over my head. What if I were to get a hair transplant on basically the front 2/3 of my head to establish the hairline and front and what not and use a hair system on the back when things begin to get real thin? I figure I comb my hair forward anyway, it wiill be hard to tell I have a piece in the back. Is this a legit path to take?
  8. Im 19, I have diffuse thinning and receeding at the hairline. Ive been on fin for about 7-8 months and have seen nothing but a pretty consistant shed. Worst of all, I am depressed, I have insane anxiety, my libido has gone to hell, I have bags under my eyes. And no this is not in my head. TRUST ME this is not in my head. I want to keep on this drug so bad but I just cant keep doing this to myself. Problem: I REALLYYYY dont want to be bald. I know I will probably lose some more hair from coming off of this drug. I know...I am very very upset about that. You can now probably begin to imagine how much of a predicament I am in. But In my opinion you cannot compromise your quality of life this much for hair. My question is what now? Minox does not work for me. It just doesnt. What can I do to stop/slow down this beast as much as I can? And also, does this mean I can never get a hair transplant since I will not be on fin? Please help
  9. Im 19, I have diffuse thinning and receeding at the hairline. Ive been on fin for about 7-8 months and have seen nothing but a pretty consistant shed. Worst of all, I am depressed, I have insane anxiety, my libido has gone to hell, I have bags under my eyes. And no this is not in my head. TRUST ME this is not in my head. I want to keep on this drug so bad but I just cant keep doing this to myself. Problem: I REALLYYYY dont want to be bald. I know I will probably lose some more hair from coming off of this drug. I know...I am very very upset about that. You can now probably begin to imagine how much of a predicament I am in. But In my opinion you cannot compromise your quality of life this much for hair. My question is what now? Minox does not work for me. It just doesnt. What can I do to stop/slow down this beast as much as I can? And also, does this mean I can never get a hair transplant since I will not be on fin? Please help
  10. I dont have any tools to upload pics as of now. Let me describe my situation as best as I can... I am receeding in the front and temples. Nothing severe as of yet...but it has deffinitely gone back like 1.5cm. When my hair is wet you can see some scalp under a reasonably bright light (walking out of the shower i see a little scalp throughout my head in the mirror). I know that I have diffuse thinning. The front is what bothers me the most as I am not happy with the way my forehead looks without hair...
  11. Alright, HEAR ME OUT. I cannot deal with this hairloss. I AM SO UGLY with frontal hairloss, it just aint gonna fly. Period. End of story. Cant happen. With that aside... I have diffuse thinning, but it isnt really bad anywhere but the front and temples. Ive been on propecia 7 months and it seems it may have slowed things down a little but I am losing mainly in the front and temples. If youre gonna say theres nothing I can do, then don't say it. Im willing to do anything, and if shit completely hits the fan Ill wear a friggin tupay (spelling?) I dont give a crap. What I wanna do is get an HT and restore some hair in the front. As I lose more hair in the next year or so...I am willing to also get that filled in with other surgeries. Please tell me what I should aim for / what to expect and what not. This hairloss is consuming my life and I dont look nearly as good as I once did. This NEEDS to happen, so PLEASE, PLEASE work with me.
  12. Alright, HEAR ME OUT. I cannot deal with this hairloss. I AM SO UGLY with frontal hairloss, it just aint gonna fly. Period. End of story. Cant happen. With that aside... I have diffuse thinning, but it isnt really bad anywhere but the front and temples. Ive been on propecia 7 months and it seems it may have slowed things down a little but I am losing mainly in the front and temples. If youre gonna say theres nothing I can do, then don't say it. Im willing to do anything, and if shit completely hits the fan Ill wear a friggin tupay (spelling?) I dont give a crap. What I wanna do is get an HT and restore some hair in the front. As I lose more hair in the next year or so...I am willing to also get that filled in with other surgeries. Please tell me what I should aim for / what to expect and what not. This hairloss is consuming my life and I dont look nearly as good as I once did. This NEEDS to happen, so PLEASE, PLEASE work with me.
  13. Yea I said in my original post Ive been on the propecia about 7 months. Im pretty sure i just got over a shed on that so maybe things will start being better. Im 19 years old, I used steroids when I was in highschool and now am sorta paying the price. Luckily, my hairloss is not too bad. I have diffuse thinning however I still have solid coverage all over, my temples and hairline however are receding. Like I said, should I drop this rogaine at night? Because currently the only time I shed a lot is when I put that stuff in.
  14. Yeah I shower like twice daily so it isn't that. (by the way I appreciate the quick responses) But yeah...I'm pretty sure its no allergic reaction as I've been using this stuff for around 5 months once daily. I'm really not sure what it is...but do you think its reason enough to quit? I mean I EASILY shed 5x the amount of hairs I would normally after my rogaine application. So I'm kinda in a pickle here...I dont want that postrogaine shed that I hear about but this stuff is deffinitely making hairs fall out on impact
  15. I understand that, but my only question really is, is it bad that hairs immediately fall out upon me putting in liquid rogaine?
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