Hi hellomoto, welcome to the forum, first of all there is no point in telling you where you should have gone for your HT,
hope fully the lose you have is only normal shockloss and will grow back, if you have pictures you will get some good advice here, how many grafts did you get?
hang in there, it might be ok and if not too much of your doner area was used a repair if needed is your next project.
good luck
IH