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  1. Thank you incubus...One of the few mature, intellectually thought out and sensitive responses. Any intelligent person must question why people with "great results" are spending hours a day on a REPAIR forum. As Ive said, this forum is bombarded with marketers and doctors, posing as happy patients. There is not logical "patient" who would spend hours a day or even 30 min a day to reply and post arguments for pro-HT. If I was happy with my results, Id live life and move forward. It's one thing to promote a business , as unethical and warped as this industry is. But to insult, put down and attack fellow patients and HT sufferers is outright childlike, mean and cruel. My factual statements and points were all true and no one has yet to argue those reason I stated to not get HT done. No one. because you can not argue the truth. I have woken up from my insecure delusions, unfortunately too late. I too was a "happy patient" thinking I did the right thing. These guys too, will one day wake up to the reality of what the truly had done, what they sell or what they have done to insecure people like me. I wish I read things from someone like myself (and there are thousands of us) before I took the plunge down the dark and depressing and one way ticket to HT.
  2. Let me ask a question to the forum... IF some of you guys are so happy about HT's who have done them...why are you spending your time on these forums? Shouldnt/wouldnt you want to get an HT, and put it out of your mind? About 5 years went by from my first HT to my second and I didnt think twice about it and especially didnt go on a forum about it. People on this forum are looking for REPAIR, which is a huge topic for people like me who realize their MISTAKE (which,DUH!!...Repair is the topic of this so involved debate and anyone on here is either looking for genuine HELP or is a doc/marketer looking to drum up business...isnt that common sense!!! or are you saying that guys with great results who are happy, take their time to read an post to repair or ht forums?!) Photographic evidence? Are you kidding me? Go on hairlosshelp.com and look in thd doc gallery of their best patients...the afters look like guys who are still in need of HT's most of the time...you CANT NOT take 5000 grafts and fill the top of a head... YES, in SOME cases, there are acceptable and even good results...however, Im not arguing that... and those cases are few and far between....No one on this site with "amazing" results should be on a forum topic like this , if youre so happy, you would move on with your life. Facts: Marketers and docs control and distort these sites from guys who want answers and help..and many many guys are in a depression and upset and regretful about there bad decisions with HTs..not just because they were bad docs...but because of doing it at all. Depression, and sadness is NOT something to joke about or make light of,...thats sick that you guys would do so. IF YOU ACTUALLY READ MY FACTS I WROTE, (which I'll be happy to cut and paste for you ), NO ONE is arguing it...no one...everyone is sitting here bashing me..and I can not believe a fellow HT victim/patient, would have no empathy or compassion for another man going through this...Only a doctor would be so cold hearted to someone who WAS suffering from depression. YOU guys are the ones continuing this thread...just stop bringing up nonsense and it wlll be done with. This topic is about repair..I made a post or 2 with FACTUAL arguments in it and then rebutted attacks against me from whom I think are marketers or doctors for reasons Ive stated above. Bad prose? Interesting..again, read my facts and debate them. By ignoring the list I wrote earlier of problems and issues with HT's only proves my points.
  3. Qwert, Hmm...Im a "moron"...very mature thank you. Why exactly is that? Because youre really a doctor and Im messing up your image or making you upset? What factual information have I stated that is a lie? Read over my FACTS before you go calling people names. I think it's a bit childish and plain rude and insensitive to call me a moron. You have no idea the sadness and regret I have gone through, or don't care. Most/all guys on here have suffered severely either with the regret of doing this ridiculous procedure(s) , or needing repair thats just not possible , or feeling insecure of losing hair. So unless youre a HT doc, which it sounds like to me..you should understand and have empathy for me. As for my "mental status"...wasn't I the first to admit that this has caused depression and how I WAS so insecure that it pushed me into this moronic decision? Are you trying to impress everyone with your keen wit by calling me names? What you and others don't get, is that ANYONE seeking HT or has gotten HT, NEEDS a therapist or needed one before they got it. Losing hair as a man, is natural. HT is an EMOTIONAL issue, which causes us so much insecurity that we are willing to slice & punch open our scalps to stick a few thousand grafts of hairs from the back our our head to the front and top (where tens of thousands of grafts are missing). THAT doesnt sound like mental issues to you?!!! I WAS in a need of a therapist before I woke up to this nightmare and realized what Ive done. As MANY THOUSANDS of men also have done so. Read my facts I wrote earlier and argue FACTS....You can not dismiss or argue them, they are all TRUE . Dont call names and expect to win an argument or sound like a tough guy doc. Grizzlybare, Im sorry you went through one of thoses 80's style procedures...that is awful and any doc that did that should be locked away in prison. To address your statements....No Im not out of money, I have plenty to work with thank you. Frustrated, yes...I can not back out of my early decision that I made when I was depressed and insecure. If a man at his youth decides to tattoo half his body because he believes it will make him cool or happy and went to the best place in the world....Does that gurantee that 5-15 years later he cant one day wake up and be like "What the f--k did I do to myself!? What was I thinking??...what a moron I was...Look at all these other guys who didnt make such a dumb move"....THATS how I feel everyone...try and comprehend it. As for baldness...I dont see what that has to do with girls being called tramps? There's no correlation. Its VERY accepted in business communities, you can see any Forbes or business magazine and spot a shaved head man. As for social acceptance...look in any bar, club, restaurant, night club, supermarket...it may have had a negative tone 10 years ago but in 2006 its not only accepted, and trendy, but women truly like it...its a sign of "F-U" to your hair loss. ..and I see beautiful women dating men with shaved heads all the time and that doesnt mean theyre tramps...! And the difference between your nonsensical comparison of a tramp and a shaved head or HT man...is that someday the tramp can turn her life around ...the HT man is scarred with his decision for life. Anyone else who feels a need to reply..please read my FACTS I stated earlier and make intelligent thought out comments on the Factual problems with HT's and try to have a little more tact and sensitivity...we are all suffering together (except these scum bag HT docs.
  4. I am not the victim of a BAD HT per se... as much as I am a victim of Hair transplants...No one can "tell" I had one...because I jumped the gun and got one so early and of course the doc wanted money and agreed..however, now that Ive woken up and realized what a complete jack ass I was..I no longer have the option to shave or cut it down without exposing the ear to ear nightmare we are left with.. Do we all care how we look of course...but dealin with aging is a normal part of growing older than I fooled myself into thinking I could run from. I will not list all the FACTS I did before...but HT's should be illegal where they are now...No doctor ever would guarantee results, or scar results or lack of stretching, or future loss...and none of us can KNOW how we will feel 5-15 years down the road.. I was someone that 5 years ago or less, would have said to myself, "why isnt everyone doing this?"..I even saw 2 guys with scars and bad ht's shaved down and though, "Man that sucks they didnt go to a better doctor"....but I woke up and realize Im one of them...if not by sight, then by mentality. our bodies change almost as much as our MINDS do (and decisions)..and this is one decision we can not go back on ever!!! Some guys get things pierced or dye their hair green or cheated on a test in college or stole money from a register when they were 10..but this is a mistake we have to live with forever and commit to forever or until we shave or are LUCKY enough not to have future loss. Its a losing battle and we are savagely being taken advantage of by docs who know the risks. Why do you think the repair aspect of HT's is so big? its not just crappy docs who produce bad results..look around, research...there are guys from every doc who had bad luck, bad genetics, and regret this more than anything. Its ruining lives and confidence more than helping. Sure, SOME guys luck out or feel better...I did for about 5-6 yrs..I thought it was great....things change...scars dont
  5. Not only do I have a right to say it as a free citizen..but I have a right to say it as someone who has suffered from the insecure feeling of losing hair....and I have a right to say something as someone who let my insecurities be victimized and taken advantage of by these savage doctors who know all the facts that Ive stated earlier and just don't care. There is a CURE for the balding man...SHAVE YOUR HEAD and or accept that you are a human being and we as human males sometimes lose hair...this is not a disease or something "wrong"...its natural..unlike getting our heads cut open to try and work through our emotional and psychological issues
  6. I'll answer both of you in this... First of all.. I am not ignorant...I WAS until recently... I go suckered into the savages preying on the insecure in this industry. Facts: You can not assume or guarantee or even predict what a man's scalp will do, stretch or not No matter what the closure type or technology..hair will keep falling out and thus more procedures...any top doc will admit that with more than one procedure (which will most likely be needed, as they will admit over time) the skin WILL stretch and you will not get as thin a scar Sure its great in theory, but scars are real and permanent, you can feel them , see them and they arent going anywhere. Bald or short hair cuts ARE in finally and I and many of us are suckers and idiots for not seeing this and chasing a pipe dream of keeping and planting hairs in our head and cutting our heads open to do so. These sites are run by and sponsored by doctors and marketers in the industry... The "good" results from most of these featured doctors, still are balding men at the final stages, just with a little more hair There is a limited amount of donor hair and the older you get, the less of it...you cant spread 3000-5000 hair grafts around and expect it to look like a normal unreceeding man..thats moronic... Yes looks are important..and having an ear to ear scar and hairs planted on my head ,no matter how good or bad the doctor is, is not cool or visually realistic Clearly none of us think we can pull off a bald look...DUH! Thats why we did this..but we all can...MOST shaved head men, didnt think at one point they could pull it off..but now they NEVER have to worry or be insecure again about this crap...we cant say that... Tricho does not make the scar smaller and works best with a virgin scalp, not a revision...do your research..I have...it only allows some hair to grow through it. You do need to keep up with it, your graftd hair is permanent but the hair around it isnt...common sense... I have no experience (thank GOD) with HT's from the 80's mine were from 2000-2005..and I WOKE up now to my insecurities...someday you'll do the same...I spoke and thought about HT's like you for my whole life..one day you'll realize what you did
  7. No, my reaction is that of a formerly overly self conscious, insecure person, who has awoken to the rest of the world's reality, that no one gives a crap whether you receed or lose your hair... In today's world its a LOT cooler , and more possible to be "attractive" with a short haircut or shaved head then a HT that you need to maintain and keep up with for the rest of your life, with limited donor hair, with scar stretching (and the possibilities of worsening of the scar stretching with each procedure), a scar that is there for life, pitting or pitting possibilities. Even a "good" HT, is still ridiculous and not normal looking. Go on some of these sites at the top docs and look at the patients they are most proud of to show..in most case 90% or more, the final results is still a receeding hairline...and in 5-10 years they will lose more hair and will be forced to get cut open again and again I recently woke up to this superficial scam we fell for, while other smarter more confident guys shaved down or crop their hair and still get girls, have confidence and get over their insecurities All these sites are run by docs...wake up people...It took me too long to do so unfortunately.
  8. Go to hairloshelp.com for some guys that have gotten FUE's in... Met feller, wasnt the most compassionate guy...all these doctors really suck when it comes down to it..Dr Wolf SUPPOSEDLY gets ok results from revisions but when it comes down to it, its not guaranteed. Our BEST bet right now, is wait for Juvista to come out or haircloning..or shave down...Ive talked to a few guys that have shaved and most are VERY VERY happy they did...Its not an easy way out, but there is no easy way out, we're screwed no thanks to these as*hole doctors and this industry' Beware though...all these sites are full of doctors and marketers just trying to get your money and brainwash you
  9. Has anyone gotten a scar revision with Dr Wolf? Id like to see some pics...Also, Id like to see before and afters of people who have FUE into scars and any stories etc Private msg me if anyone is okay with discussiong their situation with me...
  10. Has anyone gotten a scar revision with Dr Wolf? Id like to see some pics...Also, Id like to see before and afters of people who have FUE into scars and any stories etc Private msg me if anyone is okay with discussiong their situation with me...
  11. Rachmunas, PLEASE learn from our mistakes...DO NOT GET A HT!!! Having had 3 HT's already..I can tell you, that dealing with the scar, lack of naturalness, pitting graft scars, costs, and paranoia is NOT worth it and is a million times worse than the loss of your hair naturally...Id sell my house and car, go into debt, run a hundred marathons and do anything to UNDO my HT's and shave... Go to a bar and you'll see shaved or buzz cut hair bald guys scoring girls...its a lot more attractive that a ugly scar, and the paranoia you feel after getting this I was in your shoes too..money wasnt an object, I thought I was being smart..I didnt research a thing... PLEASE dont do this...Msg me and I'll talk to you more about it
  12. Thanks for the updates and info guys Where was that revision.tricho done? It looks amazing...I hope I can get results like that from Dr Feller or someone
  13. Anyone that is considering a 1st time transplant...PLEASE I beg you, DONT They are a nightmare!!! Take 3-6 months of research.. The only methods right now that are even partially okay are FUE, tricho closure,HITS method... ESPECIALLY dont go to Bosely, they make the worse scars, which they dont even tell you about ...they are salesmen and dont have the best technology, Id do anything to go back in time and undo what Ive done and get rid of these scars
  14. Anyone that is considering a 1st time transplant...PLEASE I beg you, DONT They are a nightmare!!! Take 3-6 months of research.. The only methods right now that are even partially okay are FUE, tricho closure,HITS method... ESPECIALLY dont go to Bosely, they make the worse scars, which they dont even tell you about ...they are salesmen and dont have the best technology, Id do anything to go back in time and undo what Ive done and get rid of these scars
  15. Thank you! Are there any scar repair photos from anyone using this technique or something like it?
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