I would recommend just experiment with different hair products and see what works.
I had no clue the differences between a Paste, Cream, Wax, Clay, Pomade. Then there's different sheen's for each product plus the hold factor too.
I watched some YouTube videos to educate myself before buying the products.
My hair is fine and I still get a lot of fly aways.
I ended up going with Nioxin Thickening Spray pre-Styler before blow drying. Then after using American Crew Matte Clay as my styling product.
Just try some different products and have fun with it and see what works for you.