oh i'm so sorry g0910 about what you're going through. hairloss is such a terrible thing to happen to anyone and hopefully it will get better.
i dont think it peaked because i stopped minoxidil. i think the shedding just happened because that's what it normally does when you start minox. I stopped because i had really itchy scalp and i freaked out about the excessive shedding. i never had that severe of a shed before using it. and i read that if you use it long term, your follicles will be dependent on minox and will fall off if you stop it. i do not like that.
i thought that stopping minoxidil would also stop the excessive initial shedding. but it just went on. i read through the internet about their experiences with the initial shed and the length of the shed varies from person to person, from a week to five months. so i thought i'd just wait for it to stop (without using minox). trust me, the wait was not easy. my hair kept on falling throughout the day. from my own experience, stopping minoxidil during the initial shed will not take you back to how you were shedding before using it. if the initial shed has began, you just have to wait till it stops. i never thought it will but it did eventually.
i read on the internet that stopping minoxidil during the initial shedding phase, is a bad decision because the hair lost might not grow back. i checked my head just this week and i see a lot of small new hairs, about a quarter to a third of an inch thick in the base that tapers to the tip.
all in all, i never really needed minoxidil, i was only looking to possibly thicken my hair. before minox, i didnt shed a lot, i was not thinning (at least to the naked eye), or had any receding hairline. dumb decision really to try it out. i lost about 30 % of my volume and never really received anything beneficial from it. but at least i know the lost hair is growing back. i now take iron supplements, biotin, MSM, i put aloe vera on my scalp regularly and use virgin coconut oil on scalp and hair every weekend. no more minoxidil for me.