xlevelorx, argh i read your story and made me feel so frustrated for you because I went thru a similar situation. I've been losing hair steadily the past 10+ yrs (i'm 29 now), and it never really bothered me the first 5+ yrs because i have otherwise very thick hair. But everything that fell started falling from the front! So incredibly frustrating. Then the past 5 yrs the thinning accelerated and became too obvious to ignore. I spent thousands (which at times i didnt have..) on minoxidil, the regaine/rogaine type shampoos, gallons of herbal/medical tonics like Neril, and lots of herbal treatments that my mom swore would work. And which obviously didnt
Was so depressing because my 'Patch' was right at the front. And the past year i realised it was spreading because the front bit (surrounding the Patch) was getting thinner. I just did a FUT from Dr Pathomvanich in Bkk 3 days ago. 981 grafts. He was absolutely brilliant. Obviously its a long road ahead now waiting for the transplanted hair to fall out and then wait for my hair to start growing out. But just looking at the dense packing he's done is cheering me up.
But i know just how ure feeling. Its incredibly frustrating, esp as a young female, to have to agonise over your hairline, thinning hair, 'patches' etc. And the worst thing is that just like yours, mine was more obvious and became worse when i lost weight (healthily). SCREAM!
I got tired of living on side parts and increasingly conspicuous side combovers. I was so so sick of not being able to use a head band, comb my hair straight or do a side part. To some these are 'little' things, but if you're a chick in your 20s, not been able to use a head band or comb your hair back in 10 yrs, and you spend loads of time trying to creatively think of ways to style your hair, that was too much for me.
So hang in there. hugs. Dont know what more i can say to help other than you're not alone. In my case nothing else helped and i didnt want to waste more money on other things and decided to do the HT. And ironically the HT cost is a fraction of what ive spent on other things, including herbal gimmicky stuff. If you decide this is for you, only if, and then when you can, i strongly recommend you do your full research and find a good surgeon to help. I'll keep uploading progress pics on my blog so hope thats an inspiration for u to work towards