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Old 04-10-2009, 02:04 PM
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Old 04-10-2009, 05:49 PM
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Wow

this is certainly in the right forum category. You must truly value the wisdom and judgment of your follically challenged friends!

based on what you have shared I would in your shoes, seriously consider making myself scarce in terms of further interactions with this "family". You state there are some mental issues with this individual. As such you must realize that you are compromising everyone's well being including your own and that of the baby.

She alone holds the keys here. Can she go to family or girlfriends if she leaves him and this house? If she is truly unhappy then she needs to take action and either ask him to seek counseling together, or if she feels its irreconcilable, break it up in a public place. Continuing to share a roof means that she has not made that choice yet.

Ask yourself if their lives would evolve differently if you were not around?

Again, respect the "family" regardless how dysfunctional it may seem to you or how attracted you may feel to her.

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Old 04-11-2009, 06:20 AM
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I do value you guys input - most guys on this site is past their 30's and probably have considerable more insight than i do.

They have already broken up and are basically living seperate lives - only that neither of them will move, and neither can legally make the other one do so. And he refuses to let go of her.

She loves the house and has poured much more money into it than he has - so she really wants to stay, but she has promised me that if it's not going be happen, she will move.

Why do you think i should respect the family? They are not - just 3 people with the same bloodline. In my book, a family is more than that - it's about love, respect, union, socialization, support - and they are giving each other neither.
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Old 04-11-2009, 09:12 AM
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Plenty of other girls out there. Stay out of this situation, as nothing good can come of it.
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Old 04-11-2009, 09:23 AM
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Nothing except love ofcourse...
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Old 04-11-2009, 11:20 AM
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Anyway guys, i thank you for your help.. i'll delete the post since i pretty much got it figured out..
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Mike,

It's a shame you deleted the original post, because it now renders this thread useless and incoherent.

In the future, if you're going to start a topic, please don't edit or remove your posts.

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Old 04-12-2009, 09:46 AM
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sorry about that. If you could delete the thread entirely that would be great..
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Old 04-13-2009, 10:52 AM
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Mike - having read the original post (and having been thinking since about your conundrum) I'm really glad you've figured it out. Best of luck for the future.
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Old 05-20-2009, 09:16 PM
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someone say escort?
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